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Don't Listen to What Women Say. Watch What They Do.
 
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In most cases, there is a big difference between what a woman SAYS and what she actually DOES in real life. For example: When a woman SAYS that she wants a nice guy, but then goes and hooks up with a guy who doesn't even care about her and just wants to have sex with her. Here's the thing though... When a woman says, "I want a nice guy," she doesn’t mean that she wants guys to be REALLY nice to her, suck up to her and be on their best behavior all the time. What she wants is a good man who is confident and who doesn’t try to suck up to her to get laid or become her boyfriend. If a guy can just be like that, she will naturally like him, feel attracted to him and be open to kissing him and having sex with him very quickly or immediately. She's not asking for a bad boy or a guy to treat her badly. She just wants a guy who isn't trying to suck up to her with a Mr. Nice Guy act to hopefully get laid. When men don’t understand these simple truths about women, they begin to ask things like, “Why are women so difficult to deal with?” and “Why do women say one thing and do another?” Men feel like women are messed up in the head because even though they are being nice to women, they still end up getting placed in the friend zone. So, they start blaming women or getting angry at women for being difficult and not making it easy for them to get laid or get a girlfriend. Yet, the reason why women don't go around sharing the secrets of how to bang them and keep them happy is this... Women are either embarrassed to admit what they really want a man to do, or they don’t want to teach guys the secrets of how to attract them for sex and keep them happy in a relationship. Women want men who understand this stuff naturally, or men who learn it secretly and then start doing it like a natural would. To learn more, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/ http://www.themodernman.com/blog/ The truth is that women are so easy to pick up and keep happy in a relationship. Yet, women ACT like they are so difficult to pick up and please in a relationship. It's all BS. Remember: Don't listen to what women SAY about men. Watch what they actually DO. When it comes to dating and relationship advice, if you listen to what women say, they will lead you astray. To get the truth about women, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/ http://www.themodernman.com/blog/ Cheers Dan
Views: 443828 Dan Bacon
How to Talk to Women and Make Them Want You
 
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Here are 3 of the best tips on how to talk to women and make them want you sexually and romantically. 1. Don't be too neutral or too nice. Be just right. 2. Ask questions and occasionally make fun of her answers. 3. Show some interest in her, but also make her sense that you could lose interest. I explain those tips in detail in the video above and give examples of what to say. Here’s a summary of what I teach in the video… If you want to make a woman want you when you talk to her, you have to display personality traits and behaviors that create a spark of sexual attraction inside of her. You can display those traits and behaviors by the way you speak to her, what you say and how you behave when around her. For example: You can display confidence, charisma, charm, be funny and be a bit of a challenge for her to acquire based on what you are saying and doing. If you display traits like that during a the conversation, she will naturally feel a spark of attraction for you and will be interested in continuing to talk to you. However, if you only talk to her in a neutral way (e.g. like a friend, logical, serious, straightforward) or in a nice way, then it’s less likely that she will feel attracted to you. She might like you as a friend, or see you as a nice guy, but she won’t feel very motivated to get to a kiss or sex. So, if you want to ensure that a woman wants you (in a sexual and romantic way) when you talk to her, don’t just stick to neutral or nice conversation. Spice things up and create a spark with her by displaying attractive traits and behaviors as you talk to her (e.g. be very confident, be charismatic, use confident humor, be a bit of a challenge and so on). To get more examples of what to say when talking to women, plus the secret to getting laid and getting a girlfriend easily, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon P.S. If you haven't yet subscribed to my Youtube channel, click here to do so now: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1
Views: 355350 Dan Bacon
How to Re Attract Your Ex (5 Examples)
 
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The examples of how to re-attract your ex are: 1. Be emotionally stronger than her. 2. Show her that you've moved beyond the level that you were at when she broke up with you. 3. Use humor to make her smile, laugh and feel happy to be interacting with you. 4. Get her to forgive your past mistakes so she will allow herself to feel attracted to the new you. 5. Don't look at other guys as being competition for her. If you want to re attract your ex girlfriend, fiance or wife, don't waste time focussing on your physical appearance. While improving your physical appearance can make a small difference in how she feels, the most important ways to attract her are based on you make her feel when interacting with her. You've got to be able to let her experience your emotional strength, see that you've changed, laugh and smile when talking to you, properly forgive you so she can feel attracted to the new you and see that you don't look at other guys as being better than you. There are many more ways to re attract your ex and if you want to learn them, go to my website and watch, Get Your Ex Back Super System: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html
Views: 198499 Dan Bacon
Guiding Your Ex Back Into a Relationship
 
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Getting a woman back requires you to be a man and make it happen, rather than ignoring her and hoping that she does all the work. If you ignore your ex for too long, she might just decide to move on and start dating other guys because you don't seem to care. If she is already with a new guy and can see that you don't have the confidence or know-how to get her back, she will feel as though you're probably not ready for a woman like her. So, what should you do to guide your woman back into a relationship? If your ex currently hates you, the main thing that you need to focus on from now on is using every interaction that you have with her as an opportunity to rebuild some of her respect, attraction and love you again. If your ex loves you and is open to getting back together with you if you play your cards right, what she needs from you is your masculine direction. You need to lead the way back into a relationship, rather than ignoring her and hoping that she fixes everything and gets the relationship back together. To learn the exact steps to follow to get your ex girlfriend, fiance or wife back, go to my website and watch the introductory video: http://www.themodernman.com/the-secret-to-getting-her-back Cheers Dan
Views: 52436 Dan Bacon
When a Woman Loves You, But Isn't in Love With You
 
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Go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html If you are in a relationship or marriage with a woman who loves you as a person (or friend), but isn't in love you with you...don't worry - you can fix it. You simply need to start getting the spark back in your relationship by making her feel sexually attracted to you again. This is actually a lot easier than you may think. A woman's sexual attraction for a man is mostly based on what he says and does around her, rather than on how he looks. You can begin to change the way you talk and behave around her (in a good way!) and she will literally start to feel sexually attracted to you again. To learn how, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 107266 Dan Bacon
How to Be a Challenge in a Relationship
 
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The main reason why a man should be a challenge in a relationship with a woman is that it brings out the best in her. When she feels as though it’s an enjoyable challenge to win more and more of his affection, love and interest, she becomes fixated on him and the relationship. She tries harder to be a better girlfriend or wife, she tries to look sexier, she is more affectionate, more enjoyable to be around and so on. Essentially, she behaves the way a woman usually behaves when a couple first starts dating (i.e. she tries to win the man over and make him fall in love with her). Men who aren’t aware of the power of being a challenge in a relationship, often end up in a situation where their girlfriend or wife says that she is bored of the relationship, or that there is no spark anymore. She might love him as a person, but something will be missing. That missing something is the desire for her to impress him, win him over, be good to him, make him want her more and more. Unfortunately, many guys out there don’t want to make their woman feel that way because they think it would be uncomfortable for her, or wrong to do that or that she would get frustrated and want to break up with him. Yet, it’s what women really want. Women love it when they become consumed by thoughts of you; when they obsess over you and want to win more and more of your love. As long as you continue to be the good man that you are, then you’re simply giving her the ultimate gift by being a challenge for her to win over for the rest of your life together. Being a challenge in a relationship isn’t about being selfish, not caring about her, being emotionally closed up or not allowing her to have an opinion. It’s not about that at all. What is it about? Watch the video above for 4 examples of how to be a challenge in a relationship. Here are the 4 examples discussed in the video: 1. Don't worry about what she is thinking or feeling from moment to moment. 2. Make her feel motivated to improve and to impress you. 3. Don't let her control you with Ridiculous Rules. 4. Let her win you over about certain things. For many more examples of how to be a challenge and how to easily create and maintain a relationship dynamic that causes your woman to feel increasingly respectful, attracted and in love with you over time, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan Bacon Founder of TheModernMan.com and creator of Make Her Love You For Life
Views: 111061 Dan Bacon
96.2% of Single Women Want You to Know This...
 
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If a woman is single and secretly hoping to find herself a new boyfriend or lover, she will often meet guys that she likes, but the interaction won’t lead to a phone number exchange, kiss, sex or date. Why? There are many different reasons why it will happen, but here are few: 1. The woman likes the man, but is afraid to show too much obvious interest in case he rejects her. 2. The woman likes the man, but is worried that he will lose interest if she is too keen. 3. The woman likes the man, but doesn’t want to show too much interest to make things easy for him. She wants to play hard to get and seem unimpressed to check if he is still able to maintain his confidence around her, or if he will crumble under the pressure and start doubting himself. A lot of very beautiful women do this to ensure that they only get into a relationship with a guy who is truly confident in himself and isn’t only feeling confident because she is being nice to him. 4. The man likes the woman, but since she isn’t making it obvious that she likes him, he thinks she isn’t interested, he doesn’t have a chance or he’s not her type. 5. The man enjoys making women feel attracted to him, but usually doesn’t follow through to a phone number, kiss, date or sex because he is either already seeing too many women, is too busy with his every day life or, in many cases, he fears that he might get rejected if he tries to take things to the next level (i.e. ask for her number, move in for a kiss, ask her to catch up with him). So, as a man, what you need to understand is that you will often meet attractive women who would be open to something happening between you and them, but they won’t always make it obvious to you. The fact is that single women are looking for love, sex and relationships, just like men are. So many women are hungry for some sex or love, but they don’t always make it obvious, for the reasons mentioned above. This is why, as a man, you need to have independent confidence (i.e. your confidence is not based on what a woman is saying or doing when in your presence) and then just go from one step to the next until you are kissing her, having sex with her and enjoying a relationship with her, if you want that as well. When you have that skill, you will realize that the majority of women (including pretty, beautiful women) are way easier to attract and pick up than they make themselves out to be. You will also realize that the majority of guys out there cannot do what you can do. As a result, you enjoy your choice of women as other guys look on wondering, “How does he do that? What does he have that I don’t?” To learn more about how to meet single women, attract them and get to kissing, sex and into relationships, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon If you haven’t already subscribed to my Youtube channel, do that now by clicking here: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1 I’m always posting new videos with helpful tips and techniques and you won’t want to miss them.
Views: 140202 Dan Bacon
3 Beginner Tips For Building Up the Confidence to Approach Women
 
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http://www.themodernman.com/ Being confident enough to approach women and hit on them properly separates you from 95% of other guys. Most guys are either too afraid to approach women or they lack the skills to properly hit on a woman in the way she really wants. The 3 beginner tips for building up the confidence to approach women are: 1. Get into the habit of imagining things going well. 2. Accept that every approach probably won't result in a relationship...and that is okay. 3. Stop identifying yourself as being an insecure man around women. To learn more, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/
Views: 107793 Dan Bacon
Get Your Ex Back: The 3 Stages She Went Through Before Breaking Up With You
 
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http://www.themodernman.com/ Before your ex girlfriend, fiance or wife broke up with you, she went through 3 basic stages. She first lost respect for you as a man, then lost attraction and then began to fall out of love with you. To get her back, you're going to need to guide her through those 3 stages once again, starting with getting her respect back. Once she respects you again, she will then open up to her renewed feelings of attraction for you. When that happens, she will naturally begin to fall back in love with you. If you want expert assistance with getting your ex back, please check out my proven to work system: http://store.themodernman.com/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html
Views: 130961 Dan Bacon
Winning the Power Struggle in Your Relationship
 
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Go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Women always test their man to see how much power they can gain over him. If a man gives a woman too much power, she loses respect and attraction for him. If a man doesn't give her any power, she also loses respect and attraction for him. The way to win the power struggle in your relationship and not lose her respect and attraction is to be in the position of power while ALSO continuing to be loving, respectful and kind towards her. This means that you still let her have a say, you still respect her opinions and you genuinely care about her...but, you are in the position of power. It's not 50/50. You are in the position of power, she is your woman and she looks up to you and respect you...but, you ALSO respect her and genuinely care about her. We live in a very politically correct world these days, so pretty much anyone you ask will say that it should be 50/50 or the woman should be in the position of power. Yet, that is the reason why there is such a high divorce and break up rate. 50/50 or the woman in power does not lead to a lifetime of mutual love, respect and attraction between a man and a woman. What does? This: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan
Views: 77736 Dan Bacon
The Biggest Mistake to Avoid When Trying to Get Your Ex Back
 
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The biggest mistake is to be an emotionally wussy (e.g. insecure, emotionally sensitive, afraid to be yourself around her). If you want to get a woman back, you must show her that you are emotionally strong no matter what she says or does. Some examples of being an emotional wuss when trying to get an ex back: 1. Seeming to be lost without her in his life (e.g. can’t focus on work or studies, not eating or sleeping properly). 2. Constantly needing to text her or talk to her so he doesn’t feel so lonely. 3. Desperately pleading with her for another chance. 4. Being afraid to be confident and make her feel attracted during conversations. 5. Crying to her. 6. Saying that he can’t live without her (e.g. he will kill himself, life isn’t worth living). When you show your ex girlfriend, fiance or wife that you are emotionally strong no matter what she says or does, it makes her feel some respect and attraction for you. When she feels some respect and attraction for you, it is then so much easier to guide her back into a relationship with you. If you need help to get your ex back, head over to my website for some free advice or watch my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html
Views: 61218 Dan Bacon
5 Common Reasons Why Women Test Men
 
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As you will discover in this video, women test men for logical and legitimate reasons and more importantly, you can actually use their tests to your advantage. In most cases, a woman will test you for one of the following reasons: 1. To see if you truly feel worthy of her. 2. To feel attracted to you. 3. To make herself feel confident about your attraction for her. 4. To see if you are emotionally stronger than her. 5. To see how you handle challenges in life. As a man, it’s very important that you understand why women test you and how to handle it. If you don’t understand how to handle the tests that women put you through, or if you take their tests too seriously, you may end up getting annoyed at women, losing confidence in yourself and potentially avoiding them altogether. It doesn’t need to be that difficult. Women are a lot easier to understand and manage than that. In most cases, the solution in most cases is to simply laugh at her or at the test, turn the test back on her or not take it so seriously. If you can do that, a woman will respect you and feel attracted to you. Why? Her tests are essentially about seeing how confident you really are. What a woman really wants is a man who can be confident around her no matter what she says or does. That makes her feel attracted to him, respectful of him and allows her to easily fall in love with him and remain in love with him when in a relationship. If you want to learn more about how to have the type of confidence that allows you to get laid or get a girlfriend easily, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html If you’re already in a relationship and want to learn how to pass the tests of your girlfriend or wife, so she respects you, feels attracted to you and falls back in love with you like she was in the beginning, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 89251 Dan Bacon
How to Talk to Shy Women Who Can't Carry on a Conversation
 
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http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-talk-to-shy-women-who-cant-carry-on-a-conversation.html Did you like this video? If yes, please click like - thank you. Would you like to be notified when I post up new videos? If yes, please subscribe to my Youtube channel. To your success with women! About the video: When talking to women who are shy and unable to confidently keep a conversation going with you, the key is to relax and not worry about it. Women are attracted to a man's confidence, so if you can just relax and allow the pauses and gaps in conversation, she will naturally feel attraction to your confidence. Additionally, don't feel the need to pressure her into saying a lot or talking non stop. Instead, love and accept her for who she is; understand that she is shy. To get her to open up to you and be more talkative, lead the way by talking about what you think and feel about certain things (example provided in the video), followed by a question where you ask what she thinks and feels about it. The more emotion and opinion she shares with you, the more comfortable she will become talking to you. If you'd like some in-depth training on conversation, I recommend that you check out my conversation program: http://store.themodernman.com/products/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html
Views: 21846 Dan Bacon
How to Stop Feeling Insecure Around Your Girlfriend
 
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One of the ways to stop feeling insecure around your girlfriend, is to start feeling worthy of her sexual and romantic love. This means that you don’t have to try hard to be good enough for her love because you are already good enough. When you think that way, you naturally begin to behave and act in a more confident way around her, which makes her feel more attracted to you. When you notice that she is more attracted to you, it makes you feel even more confident and your insecurity begins to fade away. To ensure that you don’t ever slip back into feeling insecure about your girlfriend or being insecure in the relationship, the best approach to take is to make her feel more attracted to you than you are to her. Think about it this way… Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman who was more attracted to you, than you were to her? If so, then you probably weren’t insecure in that relationship, right? You probably felt very confident about your position in the relationship. Now, with your current girlfriend, this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t feel attracted to her. You can and should feel attracted to her, otherwise, you won’t feel motivated to be with her. So, the solution isn’t to pretend that you’re not attracted, or to make her feel unattractive. Instead, you need to focus on making her feel more attracted to you, than you are to her, which then makes her begin to look at you as the more valuable one in the relationship. To learn more about how to do that in your relationship, so you never have to feel insecure about her attraction to you, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan Bacon Founder of TheModernMan.com and creator of Make Her Love You For Life. P.S. Be sure to subscribe to my Youtube channel for more relationship advice and tips for men: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1
Views: 47238 Dan Bacon
3 Mistakes That Prevent You From Getting a Girlfriend
 
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Getting a girlfriend is actually one of the easiest things you will ever do in life. Yet, if you make one of the following 3 mistakes, it won’t be easy at all. It will be painfully difficult, confusing and frustrating. You will find that many months or years go by in your life where you really want to have a girlfriend, but they always seem to remain just out of reach for you. The 3 mistakes are: 1. Thinking that you're not good enough...yet. 2. Expecting a spark to happen all by itself, with your ideal type of woman. 3. Not taking things to the next level with women who like you. So, what you need to do is start doing is the OPPOSITE of what you’ve been doing up until now. The OPPOSITE of the 3 mistakes above is as follows: 1. Knowing that you are good enough for many women right now. 2. Creating a spark when you meet a woman that you want to have as your girlfriend. 3. Taking things to the next level with her, so you can then enjoy sex, love and a relationship. If you don’t make those changes, then you will essentially be relying on hopefully getting lucky one day. Guys who use that approach (i.e. hope to get lucky with their ideal kind of woman) usually find that they can’t get a girlfriend for many years, or they end up accepting the kinds of women that they’re not honestly attracted to. As a result, they tend get into relationships that aren’t satisfying and always secretly wish they could attract a prettier woman. Don’t wish that you could attract a prettier woman. Do it. You CAN attract pretty girls. It’s ridiculously easy to do. I know this because I’ve done it myself and because men from all over the world have contacted me to say that they’ve used my techniques to enjoy easy success with women. Personally, I enjoyed my choice of women for over 10 years and then eventually decided that I was ready to settle down. Then, I met my perfect girl when she was 20 and I was 35 and we’ve been together ever since then. It’s ridiculously easy to do. So, if you’re sick and tired of being single and would like to learn exactly what to say and do to get a pretty girlfriend, then I recommend that you read my eBook The Flow or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html See you in the next video! Cheers Dan Bacon Founder of TheModernMan.com and author of The Flow
Views: 205177 Dan Bacon
How to Maintain a Woman's Attraction in a Relationship
 
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If you want your girlfriend or wife to feel sexual attraction for you, it’s essential that you focus on her primal attraction triggers, which are mostly based on how confident and masculine you are around her and how that makes her feel. So many men make the mistake of slowing suppressing their masculinity in a relationship or marriage, to the point where they become too neutral around their woman. This often happens because a guy takes what his woman is saying about his masculine behavior too serious or literally. (Watch the video above for the examples). As a result of taking her fake annoyance of his masculinity too serious, a guy ends up becoming softer, more hesitant and docile around her, which naturally decreases her feelings of sexual desire for him. Don't worry though. A man CAN rebuild the attraction in the relationship and then create what I call, “Never-Ending Attraction,” but he has to be willing to withstand the fake pressure and annoyance that he will most likely get from her if he starts thinking, talking, behaving and acting in a more naturally masculine way again around her. For example: If he has suppressed his masculinity for quite a while and suddenly starts acting more masculine by touching her in a manly way, a woman will usually say that she doesn’t like it or she will make fun of him for trying to be manly. If he goes back into his shell or worries that it won’t work on her because she is different (pretty much every guy thinks this about his woman. Big mistake!), he will have failed her basic test of his masculinity. As a result, her attraction for him will remain low or non-existent and the spark just won't be there. So, be prepared for the fact that she might test you if you suddenly begin to reclaim your masculine position in the relationship. BTW: If you are in a situation where the spark of love has died in your relationship or marriage, or your girlfriend or wife no longer feels sexually attracted to you, don't worry. You really can turn things around and get the spark back and then easily build on that and create what I call, 'Never-Ending Attraction.' How can you do that? You might want to start by using the approach that I teach in this video and see for yourself that it does change how she feels and how you feel in the relationship. You will begin to see some sparks flying between you and her temporarily and it will increase and continue to build if you keep doing it and if you use other attraction techniques to boost it. If you’d like to learn my best ever relationship attraction techniques that I can’t share here on Youtube (because I taught them in my program), then check out my program, Make Her Love You For Life: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Personally, I’ve been with my wife for over 6 years now and the respect, attraction and love between her and I continues to grow stronger. Many times when we have sex, it feels like the first time we are hooking up because the sparks between us are so strong, deep and exciting. That's a pretty damn cool thing to experience over and over again in a marriage. It makes it feel so exciting, enjoyable, fulfilling and real. You're not just going through the motions. You're there, with each other, in love and enjoying each other. So, if you need help getting the spark back, getting her to feel attracted or getting her to want you again, check out Make Her Love For You Life. Important: Make Her Love You For Life is not all about sex. In the program, I teach the ultimate relationship dynamic that naturally and easily increases feelings of respect, sexual attraction and love in a relationship. I go into detail on areas such as getting her to respect you, communicating with her, adapting yourselves to the unique relationship you have, deepening the love and so on. It’s everything you need to know to keep a relationship or marriage happy, in love, sexual and enjoyable for life. Cheers Dan
Views: 140278 Dan Bacon
What to Talk About When You First Meet a Woman
 
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http://www.themodernman.com/dating/what-to-talk-about-when-you-first-meet-a-woman.html Do you like this video? If yes, please click like - THANK YOU. To be notified when I post up new videos, click subscribe! About the video: There is no "one magic line" for talking to women in every situation, apart from just saying, "Hey, how's it going?" As demonstrated in the video, you need to talk about different things depending on the environment/situation you meet her in. In this video, I explain what to say when you meet a woman at a house party, in a shopping mall and on public transport (train, bus, plane). I also explain how to start talking to a woman who is using her smartphone and browsing Facebook.
Views: 31229 Dan Bacon
How to Get Your Ex Back After Begging and Pleading
 
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The secret of how to get your ex back after begging and pleading is to not see it as a big deal. We all make mistakes in life. Just because you begged and pleaded with your ex for another chance, it doesn't mean that you're a needy, insecure guy who cannot be an emotionally independent, confident guy. You can. Simply learn from the experience and know that you made a mistake, but that mistake isn't you. It was simply a learning experience. Everyone makes mistakes in life, but what makes a man a great man is when he learns from his experiences and becomes a better man as a result. Have you learned from the experience of begging and pleading with your ex? Yes. So, you are now a better man than you were before. From now on, you just need to show your ex girlfriend, fiance or wife that you are an emotionally strong, emotionally mature man who no longer thinks, behaves or acts like a needy guy. If you need help to become more emotionally strong before interacting with your ex again, go to my site and watch Get Your Ex Back Super System http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 43593 Dan Bacon
Stopping Negative Chain Reactions in a Relationship
 
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Go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html If you've found yourself in a situation where you and your girlfriend or wife has changed and no longer loves you, respects you or feels attracted to you, don't worry - you can fix it. If you want to gain control over the negative chain reactions in your relationship that lead to fights, arguments, stress and a loss of respect and attraction, you simply need to start creating new positive chain reaction effects from now on. To learn more, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 62235 Dan Bacon
THIS is Why Girls You Really Like Reject You
 
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When a guy meets a pretty girl or an attractive woman, he will usually be immediately stunned by what is known as The Halo Effect. All of a sudden, due to The Halo Effect, he will feel the need to treat her better and be nicer to her than he would be to other women, or even other people. She is special. She is different. She’s a PRETTY girl and he likes her. Yet, what most guys don’t realize when they react in that way to a pretty girl is that, due to The Halo Effect, guys have been reacting to her in that way her entire life. By feeling the need to treat her better based on her looks and likability, a guy will come across as though he’s trying to be liked by her and accepted by her. She will get the sense that he doesn’t feel as though he’s good enough as is and as a result, he feels the need to suck up to her or give her special treatment in order to hopefully be liked by her. So, what should you do instead if you don’t want to get rejected or friend zoned by a girl you really like? Treat her as though you are at LEAST on the same level as her in terms of value, but ideally, treat her as though you are actually a cooler, more valuable person than her. THAT is what the guys who easily attract her do. They don’t become stunned by The Halo Effect and see her as being higher value than themselves. Instead, they talk to her as though she is simply another pretty girl who like them. Watch the video above for example of how to talk to a pretty woman in that way. For more examples of what to say and do to get pretty girls to feel attracted to you, so you can get laid or get a girlfriend, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon P.S. To get more tips from the best Youtube dating coach for men, be sure to subscribe to my channel to be notified whenever I release a new video: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1 See you in the next video!
Views: 95666 Dan Bacon
A Man's Role in a Relationship
 
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A man’s role in a relationship is something that has become a confusing concept for many men due to years of politically correct messaging from the mainstream media. Men are told to be nice, but then when they do that, their woman doesn’t feel attracted. Men are told to buy lots of nice things for a woman, but when they do that, their woman takes them for granted. Men are told to not initiate sex and wait for a woman to do it, but when they use that approach, their woman feels turned off by their lack of confidence. The list goes on and on. A man’s role in a relationship has also something that has become a bit of a blur because many guys are unfortunately raised without a father figure, or by a father who didn’t really know the answer himself (I fell into that category growing up). Yet, the answer to the question of, “What is a man’s role in a relationship with a woman?” is quite simple. It’s to provide a feeling of protection. Even though we live in a modern, civilized society, a woman still has a natural instinct to ensure that she will be protected by an emotionally strong man who can handle the challenges of life and deal with difficult people. If a woman feels as though she is emotionally stronger than her man and he needs her emotional strength to protect him, then her attraction will shut down. She will begin to feel more like a mother figure to him, or a big sister, which will naturally cause her to lose sexual and even romantic interest in him. A relationship like that can often continue on for quite a while, but the sexual and romantic attraction won’t be there and both the man and the woman will feel unhappy with the relationship in their own way. This is why, if a man wants to have a happy, successful, sexual, loving and enjoyable relationship with a woman for life, he has to be able to provide her with a feeling of protection by being an emotionally strong man. Some men complain that this is unfair and suggest that a woman shouldn’t rely on a man to be emotionally strong and instead, she should support him emotionally or they should be equally as strong as each other. That’s all nice in theory, but a woman feeling stronger than her man leads to a loss of respect, attraction and love and being equals leads to a neutral relationship where the man and woman end up feeling like good friends. Once again, a relationship like that can last for quite a while, but both the man and the woman are going to be unhappy in their own way and the sexual, romantic spark won’t be there, or it will be very minimal. This can lead to cheating from either the man or woman, or lead to a break up, separation or divorce. The solution is to not try to fight against the nature of attraction and human instincts. A woman has a natural instinct to want to be with a man who is emotionally stronger than her and her attraction to him is directly linked to that. Of course, there are many women out there who are happy to be with a man who is emotionally stronger than them, but the woman will almost always withhold sex and make the man jump through endless hoops to be able to get laid in his own relationship or marriage. Some men don’t mind getting laid once a year or decade in their relationship or marriage and that’s fine if they want to live their life that way. Yet, if a man wants his woman to look at him with attraction in her eyes, be affectionate, initiate sex and want to be an increasingly good woman for him, then he needs to be able to satisfy her instinctive need to feel safe and protected by a man. In the video above, I share one of the ways that a man can satisfy that instinctive need of a woman, which is to not take her tests of his confidence and emotional strength so seriously. Watch the videos for examples of what to say and do. For my best ever techniques, methods and examples of how to rapidly increase your woman’s feelings of respect, attraction and love in a relationship or marriage, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html See you in the next video. Cheers Dan Bacon Founder of TheModernMan.com and creator of Make Her Love You For Life.
Views: 62454 Dan Bacon
The First 3 Things Women Notice About Men
 
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The first 3 things that a woman notices about a man (other than looks or clothes) are: 1. How confident he is in the environment or situation. 2. Whether he is looking up to other people, looking down on them or seeing himself as an equal. 3. How he reacts when he sees her. This is one of the main reasons why many guys who are good looking, or who put in a lot of effort into their physical appearance (e.g wear great clothes, go to the gym), still find that they can’t attract themselves a girlfriend. It’s also why many of the guys who aren’t very good looking, or who don’t put in much effort into their appearance, are able to attract pretty women for sex and relationships. So, if you want to make a great first impression on a woman when you meet her for the first time, or when you go on a date, make sure that you are ready to attract her in the ways that matter the most (i.e. confidence, social status, feeling like you are more than good enough for her). When you get the fundamentals right, you will notice that the kinds of women who previously didn’t find you attractive, suddenly start to feel attracted and interested in you. From her perspective, she will look at you and think, “There’s something about this guy. I like him.” That ‘something’ is the fact that you’ve got the fundamentals right and are naturally attracting women in ways that almost all other guys are unable to. By the way… To learn more about how to be naturally impressive and attractive to women, check out my eBook The Flow or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html When you read The Flow or listen to the audiobook version, you will learn exactly what to say and do to make women feel attracted to you and want to be with you. You will learn exactly how to initiate first touch, a first kiss, get to sex and so on. It really is very easy to do, so if you have been finding it difficult to get laid or get yourself a girlfriend, I highly recommend that you try The Flow. It works! Cheers Dan P.S. To learn more about what attracts women to men and how to enjoy your choice of women, be sure to subscribe to my Youtube channel for more videos. See you in the next video!
Views: 386422 Dan Bacon
A Secret Insecurity That Most Women Have...
 
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On the surface, it can seem as though most women are confident about their appearance and think that they are beautiful and deserving only of the best man in the world. Yet, most women (including attractive women) are insecure about their appearance in one or many ways and as a result, they happily accept guys who aren’t as good looking as them. Of course, women don’t show that to guys and will rarely admit it if you asked them. Instead, what most women do is put on an act of seeming like they are confident and sure of themselves and that a guy would be so lucky to get a chance with her. However, on the inside, most women don’t see themselves as being the most attractive woman in the world. The truth is that most women see themselves as being average looking (at best) and don’t understand why most men give them so much credit for their looks. Of course, women don’t complain about how much credit and good treatment they get for their looks, but it doesn’t make sense to most women why men get so nervous around them. Here’s the thing… When a man gives a woman too much credit for her looks, he will naturally start to behave in nervous, self-doubting ways around her (e.g. trying too hard, seeming unsure of himself, laughing at all of her jokes, being extra nice or being on his best behavior). Even if he tries to hide it, she will get the impression that he believes she holds all the cards and has all the power and value in the situation. When she notices that, she will naturally begin to play hard to get, or in some cases, reject him because he will have unintentionally made her feel as though she’s probably too good for him. Then, when he notices that she is losing interest or has lost interest, a guy might then make the mistake of trying even harder to impress her, which ends up turning her off even more. So, if you want to enjoy easy, natural success with women, don’t give them so much credit for their looks. Women don’t give themselves that much credit for their looks and you shouldn’t either. Sure, appreciate a woman’s looks, but don’t make the mistake of thinking that she is better than you based on the attraction you feel for her appearance. If you can control yourself in that way when interacting with a woman that you find attractive, she will then begin to seek your validation and try to get you to feel more attracted to her. While attempting to make you feel that way, she will unintentionally cause herself to like you and fall for you. Then, you are in the position of power and are essentially letting her get a chance with you. For more tips on how to get laid, get a girlfriend and enjoy easy, natural success with women, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon P.S. If you haven’t already subscribed to my Youtube channel, click below to be notified whenever I release a new video: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1 If you have any video requests on the topic of dating tips for men, dating advice for men, attracting women, getting laid, how to be confident around women and so on, feel free to leave a comment below the video to say hi and request a specific video topic. I’ll then add that video topic to my list of videos to make and try to get to it in the days and weeks ahead. See you in the next video!
Views: 142072 Dan Bacon
A Bad Boy Attraction Secret That Good Guys Can Use
 
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The bad boy attraction secret that I share with you in this video is about giving a woman an impression that says, “You can’t tame me.” This is very important because, if a woman is attractive, pretty much every guy that she meets shows her that he either is tame already, or is willing to be tame (i.e. willing to do whatever she wants and let her call the shots) as long as he can get a chance to be with her. If a woman is attractive, she gets bored of the fact that most guys find her attractive, like her and want her. So, when she meets a bad boy, or a good guy who uses the bad boy attraction secret that I teach in this video, it peaks her attention. She realizes that her usual charm isn’t working on him and as a result, she tries harder to get the bad boy (or good guy using this secret) to like her in the way that pretty much every other guy does. In the process of trying hard to get him to like her, she quickly begins to fall for him and he essentially allows her to have a chance with him. That’s how a good guy can be a bad boy, without being a jerk. The good guy will still be good to her and be his usual good self, but with one major difference - he isn’t instantly sold on her. She still has to impress him further. Here’s the thing… We all know that there are many bad boys out there who are jerks and thugs. You don’t need to be like that to attract women like a bad boy does. Essentially, when a good guy gives a woman an impression that says, “You can’t tame me” or, “You’re going to have to impress me more than that to make me want you,” it causes her to feel curious and then excited that for once, a guy is actually being a bit of a challenge for her to acquire. An attractive woman knows that all she has to say is, “Yes” and pretty much every guy who meets her will happily have sex with her or even get into a relationship with her. That’s boring for her. Yet, with a bad boy or a good guy who is using this bad boy attraction secret, she actually has to put in a continued effort to impress him or else he will lose interest in her. Attractive women love that feeling and love to be in that position. They usually won’t admit that openly though, so don’t bother asking them. Instead, just watch how they respond when a guy has the courage to use the kind of approach that I teach in this video. To learn more about why women love bad boys and discover more bad boy attraction secrets that make beautiful, intelligent women want you, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 331405 Dan Bacon
5 Conversation Mistakes That Instantly Turn Women Off
 
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The 5 conversation mistakes discussed in this video are: 1. Always trying to say the right thing. 2. Being too neutral or too nice. 3. Showing serious romantic interest in her before making her feel attracted. 4. Hoping that she will lead the conversation. 5. Perceiving silences as being "awkward" silences. To learn more about how to talk to women, how to keep conversations going and keep them interesting and how to get a woman to want you sexually and romantically, go to: https://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html https://store.themodernman.com/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html For more free tips on how to talk to women, watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i32UDODI1Gs Cheers Dan
Views: 586494 Dan Bacon
Things to Say to Get Your Ex Back
 
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http://www.themodernman.com/relationship/things-to-say-to-get-your-ex-back.html What to say to get your ex girlfriend (or wife) back depends on the stage of break up. Watch the video above for examples of things to say to get your ex back. Things that should also avoid saying and doing include: - Desperately talking about your feelings for her and hoping that if you pour your heart out, she will take pity on you. - Asking to tell you what to change. Women don't want to give you the answers on how to re-attract them, otherwise they feel like you'd be faking it. - Begging for another chance and promising that things will be different. - Asking if there's someone else. Women want you to always be confident in your attractiveness to them, even if they attempt to break up with you. - Saying nasty or insulting things to her to make her feel bad for breaking up with you. In the video above, I provide examples of things that you can say to an ex to get her back. If you enjoy the video, please give it a thumbs up to show your support. See you in the next video! Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 163443 Dan Bacon
9 Body Language Signs She's Attracted to You
 
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Body language is the best way to know if a woman likes you or not, because it’s something that she cannot turn off or hide from you completely. Her body language is on display and is always being expressed, whether she wants it to or not. When you know what signs to look out for, you’ll notice that many women are actually feeling sparks of attraction for you and are opening the door for something to happen between you and them. All you need to know then is how to make a move and take things to the next level with her. Firstly though, what signs should you look out for to know whether or not she likes you in a sexual, romantic way? The 9 signs of body language attraction discussed in the video above are: 1. She combs her hair over her ear, while smiling in a cute way. 2. She puts her fingers to side of her cheek or face while looking at you in a cute way. 3. She smiles and bites her tongue at the same time. 4. She smiles as she dips her chin submissively. 5. She keeps looking at you when you're not looking. 6. She engages in unusually long eye contact and it's almost as though she is in love with you already, or she is falling in love with you. 7. She remains physically close with you when talking to you for long periods of time. 8. She smiles, bites her bottom lip and looks at you in a curious way. 9. She twirls her hair with her finger, while looking at you in a cute way. If a woman displays 2-3 of those signs when you’re talking to her, then she is DEFINITELY attracted to you. If you see those signs, don’t doubt yourself or overthink it. She likes you! If you doubt that she likes you and then hesitate to make a move, many women will actually lose interest because they’ll assume that you don’t feel the same way about them, or that you’re not confident enough to make a move. This is why it’s so important for you to get clear on the signs and get used to seeing them and believing them as real, instinctive displays of a woman’s attraction for you. When a woman shows you the signs, she is trying to tell you that she likes you and is open to something happening between you and her. By the way… If you’re one of the guys who finds it difficult to attract women so you can get laid or find yourself a quality girlfriend, then I recommend that you read my eBook The Flow, or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html The Flow is the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend. It includes exactly what to say and do to go from hello to sex with a woman you find attractive. When you use the techniques from The Flow, women will show you these signs of attraction and you will know that she is attracted AND how to take things to the next level with her (i.e. get a phone number, get a first kiss, set up a date, initiate sex). It really is very easy to do. Women want it just as much as you do. Okay, I hope you enjoyed this video and I’ll see you in the next video! Cheers Dan P.S. If you want to learn more from the best Youtube dating coach for men, be sure to subscribe to my channel here: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1
Views: 217170 Dan Bacon
Will This Stop Working if Women Find Out About it?
 
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If women find out that men are using attraction techniques, will it stop working? Will it become less effective? The answer is no and the reason why is that women use attraction techniques on men, men know about it and still feel attracted. The example I give in this video is a woman’s cleavage. Even if men know that a woman gets her tits out on display to attract men, it still makes men feel attracted. It doesn’t matter if she is doing it on purpose. It’s attractive to men. Likewise, it doesn’t matter if a man is being confident, emotionally masculine, socially intelligent, funny and charming on purpose. It’s attractive to women. If you enjoyed this quick insight about attraction and would like to learn more from my in-depth training programs, here are 3 recommendations for you: 1. If you want to get laid or get a girlfriend, use this: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html 2. If you want to fix relationship problems with your girlfriend or wife, use this: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html 3. If you want to get an ex woman back after an unnecessary break up or divorce, use this: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html See you in the next video! Cheers Dan
Views: 18314 Dan Bacon
How to Stop Being Clingy
 
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How to stop being clingy: http://www.themodernman.com/relationship/how-to-stop-being-clingy.html If you are being clingy with your girlfriend, fiance or wife, it's usually because your approach to life as a man is out of balance and you are placing way too much importance on her. Read this article for advice on how to go from being clingy to confident: http://www.themodernman.com/relationship/how-to-stop-being-clingy.html
Views: 100285 Dan Bacon
How to Feel Relaxed and Confident When You're on Your Own in a Social Environment
 
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http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-feel-relaxed-and-confident-when-youre-on-your-own-in-a-social-environment.html Did you like this video? If yes, please click like - thank you. Would you like to be notified when I post up new videos? If yes, please subscribe to my Youtube channel. To your success with women! About the video: When you're on your own in a social environment, it's easy to get into the habit of thinking in a nervous, self-doubting way where you're often worrying what other people are thinking of you. However, it's also easy to get into the habit of thinking like a confident, alpha male and not worrying about what anyone else thinks. Put yourself to the test: Try to stop worrying about what everyone else is thinking and start focussing on enjoying your life, moving forward in your life and thinking confident thoughts about the world around you. Instead of assuming that people are thinking negative things about you, start thinking like an alpha male and assume that people are thinking positive things about you.
Views: 26829 Dan Bacon
What to Do When a Woman Looks at You
 
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In this video, you will learn exactly what to say and do when a woman looks at you and seems to be interested. I provide you with 7 facial body language expressions that you can use to peak her interest and make her open to talking to you, as well as 3 conversation starters to get something going between you and her. Before I display the facial body language expressions to use when a girl looks at you, I first explain what her constant eye contact can sometimes mean. In many cases, it means that she likes you and wants to be approached by you, but in some cases, she’s just looking and isn’t trying to get you to approach her. So, here are the possible reasons I provide as to why she keeps looking at you: 1. She finds you attractive and wants to make it clear, so you then approach her and start a conversation. 2. She is just flirting with you and doesn’t care if you approach or not (e.g. she likes to get random guys interested in her as she goes about her day). 3. You remind her of someone she knows. 4. She’s just randomly staring at you because she’s deep in thought or thinking about life. 5. You have something unusual about you that has caught her attention (e.g. a tattoo, a t-shirt with an interesting slogan). 6. She likes your face, body, appearance or fashion sense, so she’s looking at you, but she’s not necessarily hoping that you approach her and something happens between you and her. 7. She wants to see if you have the confidence to maintain eye contact with her, rather than looking away quickly like most guys do. 8. She wants to get random guys interested in her and make her female friends jealous that she is getting a lot of attention from men. 9. She feels compelled to stare at you, but she doesn’t really know why. She’s just doing it. If you want to avoid approaching women who aren’t actually hoping that you walk over and start talking to them, simply use one of the 7 body language expressions that I provide in this video first. If she smiles, seems to open up even more and continues to look at you in response to one of the facial body language expressions, then use one of the conversation starters that I have provided in this video to get a conversation started. This way, you no longer have to sit around wondering about the answers to the following questions: - What does it mean if a girl looks at you, but looks away when you look at her? - What does it mean when a woman stares at you a lot? - What does it mean when a woman keeps looking at you, but doesn’t walk over and talk to you? Don’t worry about all of those details. Instead, just use one of the facial body language expressions to confirm that she is interested and then walk over and start a conversation. BTW: If you enjoyed this video and would like to learn more about how to attract and pick up women in a natural way so you can get laid or get a girlfriend, then I recommend that you read my eBook The Flow or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html The Flow teaches you everything you need to know, say and do, to go from hello to sex and into a new relationship with a woman of your choosing. It’s a very easy thing to do. You really have to try it for yourself to see how easy it really is. Cheers Dan
Views: 110520 Dan Bacon
How to Be One of Those Happy Couples Who Never Fight
 
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Go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Why do some couples seem to get along so well and never fight, whereas other couples always seem to be getting into arguments, stressing out over things and ruining their relationship? The answer is simple: It all comes back to how the man REACTS to his woman. If a man reacts with anger, frustration or stress when his woman throws a tantrum, says something mean to him or changes her mind all the time, then he is setting up the dynamic for a problematic relationship. The thing is, women will ALWAYS test your ability to maintain your cool and not become rattled by life, people and her. When she throws a tantrum or tries to create drama with you, she wants you to retain your cool and turn it into something that you and her can quickly or eventually laugh about together, rather than following her into the drama and losing your cool. To learn more, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 18588 Dan Bacon
Relationship Advice For Men
 
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Here are the 5, important pieces of relationship advice for men that are discussed in this video: 1. Creating a relationship dynamic based on the fear of getting dumped, usually leads to it happening. 2. Putting way more effort into the relationship than a woman does, isn't the way to get her to fall more and more in love with you. 3. Relationships are not hard work. 4. Turning sex into something that you're getting from her, gradually makes her stop wanting it. 5. Being emotionally fearless in a relationship will give you far greater rewards than being emotionally guarded. With #2, sometimes a guy will make the mistake of putting in more effort into the relationship than his woman, in the hope of making her love him the way she used to in the beginning. Yet, that’s not the way to do it. Women will rarely admit this if you ask them, but the best way to make a woman fall more and more in love with you over time, is to bring out her good girl side in the relationship and keep it alive. This means bringing out the side of her that always wants to treat you well, be affectionate, be attentive, loving and supportive. On the other hand, if you bring out a woman’s bad side and allow her to get away with treating you badly, then neither of you will really like who she becomes in the relationship. From your perspective, she may slowly become a woman that you used to love and appreciate, but not anymore. You might feel like you resent and even hate her at times, especially if you’ve been such a good man to her and she is gradually putting less and less effort into making you feel appreciated or loved in the ways that are important to you. Think about the couples that you’ve seen where the woman is affectionate, loving and respectful towards her man and you will realize that the man isn’t making the mistake of putting in loads more effort into the relationship than her to hopefully make her happy. Instead, he is a good man and treats her well, but more importantly, he gets her to treat him well and feel lucky to have a man like him. She knows how difficult it would be to find a man like him who can bring her good girl side out and keep it alive and well in the relationship. As a result, she loves him more than she has ever loved anyone else in her life and treats him like he is the one for her. Unfortunately, so many men out there don’t ever get to experience that kind of love because they are unable to keep a woman’s good girl side alive and well in the relationship. No matter how much he does for her, it’s never enough and it never brings back the love she used to have for him because he is going about it in the wrong way (i.e. he’s trying to get her to love him based on what he does for her). Soon enough though, a break up happens and more often than not, it’s the woman who initiates it. After every good deed the guy has done for her, the guy might then feel shocked that she wants to leave him and may even end up feeling bitter and angry when he notices that she moves on without him. It’s a horrible experience for a man to go through, especially when he is a good man and had good intentions with her all along. Yet, the reality is that she didn’t break up with him because he was a good man. In most cases, a woman will break up with a guy because just wasn’t able to bring out her good girl side and keep it alive and well, so things gradually began to fall apart. The guy could have turned the relationship dynamic around and made her treat him better and be social much more loving, affectionate and attentive than she ever was, but he didn’t know how to do that, so he lost her. He also didn’t ever get to experience the higher levels of love that happen after years of being together where the love is growing. To get to that amazing place in a relationship, you have to bring out her good girl side and keep it alive. It's very easy to do as well. To learn exactly how to do it, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html By the way… My approach to relationships (that I’ve been using with my wife for the last 6 years) is about bringing the best out of a woman, so she treats you with the love, respect and affection that you deserve. When you approach your relationship in that way, you will see a completely new side of your woman and more importantly, she will keep getting better and better over time. That’s what I’ve been experiencing with my wife and what men from all over the world who have used my approach, have been experiencing with their woman. You can do it too. It really is possible to turn things around in your relationship and enjoy an amazing relationship with her from now on. See you in the next video! Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 95681 Dan Bacon
Should You Tell Your Ex That You Still Love Her?
 
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Should you tell your ex girlfriend, fiance or wife that you still love her? Yes. There's nothing wrong with loving a woman. As long as you tell your ex that you still love her in a confident, calm, masculine way, she will respect you for it. However, when a guy tells his ex that he still loves her while he is feeling needy, insecure and desperate, she's not going to respect him for it. Women respect men who are confident, happy and forward moving in life with or without a woman's reassurance of her love for him. Your ex doesn't want to be responsible for how confident you feel. She wants you to be confident, happy and forward moving in life no matter what she says or does. So, if you're wondering things like, "Should I tell my ex girlfriend how I feel about her?" or "Should I tell my ex girlfriend I still love her?" the answer is YES, as long as you do it in a confident, relaxed manner. If you need help to get your ex back, go to my website and download my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html (or watch it online in your customer account) Cheers Dan Bacon http://www.themodernman.com/
Views: 31795 Dan Bacon
5 Tips on How to Get Out of the Friend Zone With Your Ex
 
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The secret of how to get out of the friend zone with your ex is to make her feel so attracted to you that she fears losing you to another girl. The reason why most guys remain stuck in the friend zone with their ex girlfriend or wife, is that they don’t feel worthy of her in a sexual and romantic way. …and she can tell. She can see it in his body language, sense it in his vibe and pick up on it based on how he talks to her, treats her and behaves around her. She knows that he is hoping that she will give HIM another chance. Yet, what she really wants is to be in the position where she feels so attracted to him that SHE wants to get another chance with him. How can you do that? By focusing on making her feel sexually attracted and turned on by the new and improved you. If your ex only wants to be friends with you, it means that she doesn’t feel sexually attracted to you. It’s as simple as that. If you are stuck in the friend zone with your ex, you need to focus on making her feel so sexually attracted to the new and improved you that she fears losing you to another girl. When you do that, you then get out of the friend zone and back into a sexual relationship with her. Watch the video above for tips and to learn more, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Cheers Dan Bacon Founder of The Modern Man and creator of Get Your Ex Back Super System
Views: 53975 Dan Bacon
A Subtle Attraction Technique That Works on Hot Women...
 
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When a guy meets an attractive woman, he will usually react in the same way that pretty much every other guy who meets her does. For example: He will want to show that he is interested in her as a person, is listening to what she is saying, likes her and is a good guy that she can trust. Now, there’s nothing wrong with being a good guy to an attractive woman, listening to her or showing an interest, but you also have to have the balls let her see that you don’t feel the need to be EXTRA nice to her, just because she is an attractive woman. If you can’t do that because you’re worried that she won’t like you, or are worried that she won’t know how good of a guy you are, then you’re going to be like pretty much every other guy that she has met in her life. So, watch the video above for 3 examples of what you can say to let an attractive woman see that you’re a good guy, but you don’t feel the need to be extra nice to her just because she is attractive. When you show an attractive woman that you’re confident, are a good guy, but don’t feel the need to treat her any differently than you would treat a woman that you’re not attracted to, something interesting happens. She wonders WHY you’re not behaving like other guys. She sees that you’re a confident, cool, good guy and thinks, “Why doesn’t he want me? Am I not attractive to him? Doesn’t he see that I like him?” She then tries to make you like her by turning on her charm, showing interest in you and seeing how you react. If you remain relaxed and don’t get excited that an attractive woman is showing you interest, she becomes even more interested. She then begins to try even harder to make you like her and in the process of doing that, she falls for you. That right there, is one of the easiest and most subtle ways to make a beautiful feel attracted to you and fall for you. It’s not the only way you can do it, of course. I have loads of other techniques you can use on her at the same time, to make sure that she is feeling a lot of attraction and hoping that you and her hook up. If you’d like to learn those techniques, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan
Views: 132046 Dan Bacon
How to Get Your Ex Back When She Doesn't Have Feelings For You
 
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How to get your ex back when she doesn't have feelings for you: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html If your ex no longer loves you or doesn't have feelings for you, what you need to do is start making her feel SOMETHING for you from now on every time you interact with her via text, on the phone and in person. Don't keep texting, talking and interacting with her in the same old ways and expect different results. If your ex no longer loves you or doesn't have enough feelings to justify being in a relationship, you need to get active and start making her feel something. Some guys make the mistake of ignoring their ex girlfriend, fiance or wife in the hope that it will make her have feelings for him again. Yet, ignoring a woman usually only works when she really loves the guy and can't deal with life unless he is a part of it. She will then miss him, contact him and want to get back together. However, if your ex doesn't have feelings for you, you're not going to achieve much or anything by ignoring her. If you are serious about getting her back, I recommend that you start actively making her feel something for you. To learn more, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 170178 Dan Bacon
Why Do Women Like a Guy Who is a Challenge?
 
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http://www.themodernman.com/ Why do women like guys who are hard to get or a challenge to win over? Why can't it just be as simple as walking up to a girl and saying, "Hey, I like you...let's start a relationship" and then she says yes? The reason is that it is very easy for women to attract women. Most of the men that a woman meets will be willing to have sex with her just based on her appearance. After a while, a woman gets bored of that and becomes excited to get herself a guy who isn't so easy.
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How to Impress a Girl You Like
 
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One of the easiest ways to impress a girl you like is to make her feel like she has to impress you to get a chance with you. Ironically, that is what attractive girls really want anyway. So, the way to do it is to let her see that you find her attractive, but also let her see that you’re not 100% in love with her and secretly, desperately hoping that you can get a chance with her. Let her see that she is going to have to impress you and win you over, if she is going to get a chance with you. Let her feel like you are the prize and that she would be lucky to get a chance with you. Why? If the girl you like is physically attractive, then pretty much every guy she has ever met in her life (who has liked her) has tried hard to impress her to hopefully get a chance with her. That is very boring for her, because it’s too easy. Most guys don’t realize that though, so they try hard to impress her and hope that if they are on their best behavior around her, she might grant access inside of her panties. Sometimes that approach works, but in most cases, it usually ends up with a guy getting rejected or friend zoned. What should you do instead? Do what she secretly wishes you would do. That is: Make her feel like she is going to need to impress you and win you over, in order to be able to get a chance with you. How can you do that? One way to do it is to not always take conversations with her so seriously. (Watch the video for examples). When you have the confidence to not always take conversations with her so seriously, it shows her that you’re not like 99.9% of other guys who are always on their best behavior around her, trying to impress her and secretly hoping that they might be able to get a chance with her. Remember: That is boring for her and she has experienced that her whole life. What she really wants is a guy who makes her feel like she is going to need to impress him to get a chance with him. That is what is most impressive to an attractive girl and if you have the confidence to do it, you will see that she will begin to pursue you. Then, you simply have to take things to the next level (e.g. phone number, kiss, date, sex) and begin a sexual, romantic relationship with her. It’s so damn easy to do when you approach it that way, because you’re literally allowing her to have a chance to kiss you, have sex with you and enjoy a relationship with you. You are in the position of power and you allow her to get a chance with you. If you’d like to learn more about how to make a girl behave that way with you, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html See you in the next video! Cheers Dan
Views: 104522 Dan Bacon
15 Examples of What to Say When a Woman Asks You a Challenging Question
 
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When a beautiful woman is feeling attracted to you, but isn’t quite sure about you yet, she will often ask you challenging questions to see how confident you really are. If you are honestly feel as though you are good enough for her, you won’t worry and will naturally have the confidence to joke around with her and not answer her challenging questions so seriously. In other words, you won’t be like other guys who are afraid to say the ‘wrong thing’ to a beautiful woman and lose their chance with her. Instead, you are a confident, cool guy who isn’t worried whether or not she approves of everything you say. You know that you’re good enough for her, so you can say whatever the heck you want, while still being a good guy to her. That’s what most beautiful women want. They want a confident guy who isn’t intimidated by them, but who can still be a good guy. Many beautiful women struggle to find a confident, good guy who has the balls to joke around with her and challenge her during a conversation (i.e. test her). Why? Most guys are either way too nice to a beautiful woman, too neutral (i.e. they just act like a friend) or too nervous. When a guy is too nice, she ends up feeling as though she is better than him, even though she isn’t. When a guy is too neutral, there is no spark between her and the guy, so she doesn’t see him as anything more than a friend. When a guy is too nervous, it makes her feel like she is more dominant than him, which isn’t attractive. Rarely, will a beautiful woman come across a confident, good guy who has the balls to joke around with her, challenge her and not worry about potentially losing his chance with her. A good guy with that kind of confidence is what gets her attention and makes him stand out from the crowd. When a guy has the confidence playfully challenge a beautiful woman during a conversation, she drops her guard, opens up and shows a side of herself (i.e. friendly, easy-going, down to earth) that she normally doesn’t show to other guys. She usually has her guard up because she doesn’t want to give other guys the wrong idea. As a result, most guys see her as being standoffish, cold or even rude because she seems to keep her guard up. Yet, when you get her to drop her guard by playfully challenging her during a conversation, her sweet, cute, friendly side will then come out. She feels excited because she is finally getting to be her real self around a guy and, to top it off, you’re also a good guy, which makes her even more excited. Then, picking her up becomes ridiculously easy. You basically let her have a chance with you. BTW: If you enjoyed the examples of what to say from the video above and would like to learn my proven, step by step method for attracting and picking up women naturally, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html My eBook The Flow contains all of my best ever examples of what to say to start conversations, keep conversations going, keep conversations interesting and then get to a phone number, kiss, date and sex. It’s so easy to use on women, so if you are interested, go ahead and give it a try. Here’s the audio version if you’d like that instead: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-on-audio.html Cheers Dan Bacon P.S. If you haven’t yet subscribed to my dating and relationship advice channel, click here to do that now: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1 I’m always releasing new videos, including videos with tips on how to talk to women, get laid, get a girlfriend and enjoy your life with women. Subscribe now and I’ll see you in the next video!
Views: 184449 Dan Bacon
An Unusual Way to Stop Feeling Nervous Around Women
 
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If you feel nervous around pretty girls or attractive women, one of ways to start feeling more confident is to realize that women aren’t more attractive than you. That’s right, they are NOT more attractive than you. I know that might be hard to believe for some guys, but let me explain. When you see a woman, your male brain automatically makes you feel instantly attracted to her based on her physical appearance. Just based on that alone, you will instantly have a sexual interest in her. You will feel it. In some cases, you will feel an intense attraction and have a romantic interest in her, which is otherwise known as falling in love at first sight. Yet, in 99.9% of cases, you will notice that she isn’t reacting to you in the same way. Why? Her attraction works differently to yours. How does it work? In almost all cases, if you want a woman to like you in a sexual and romantic way, you have to interact with her and MAKE HER feel attracted by displaying personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women (e.g. confidence, charisma, charm, emotional masculinity, social intelligence). While it is true that women can feel attracted to a man’s looks, all you have to to do is pay attention to the HUGE difference in how men and women react to each other in life (e.g. men look at women and instantly feel attracted, stare at them, want something to happen) and you will see for yourself that most women don’t instantly feel an intense attraction for a guy simply based on his physical appearance and then want something to happen between them because of it. In almost all cases, a woman will simply get on with her life and WAIT for a guy who has the confidence to come over and interact with her and MAKE HER feel attracted. Guys who have the confidence to talk to women they find attractive and the skills to attract them (e.g. using confident humor, being charismatic, being emotionally masculine), are the ones who have their choice of women. When you understand that, you will see it happening all around you and you will then realize that you don’t need to be nervous around girls who you find attractive. You can make women feel attracted to you during a conversation. So, from now on, don’t confuse your instant attraction for women as meaning that they are better than you. They’re not. You are simply feeling a default, automatic attraction for her because of her female form. If you want to be confident around women, you have to understand and accept the fact that you can make a woman feel attracted to you as you talk to her. She does NOT have to be attracted to you by default based on your physical appearance. Most women have what I call an Open Type, which means that they can feel attracted to all different kinds of guys, as long as the guy is able to make them feel attracted when he interacts with her (e.g. by being confident, using humor, flirting with her and so on). To learn more about how to stop feeling nervous around women and start being the confident guy you deserve to be, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 41038 Dan Bacon
How to Get Your Wife Back
 
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The first part of how to get your wife back is to understand the real reasons why she left you, so you can then change, fix or improve on the things that actually matter to her. For example: When a man is trying to get his wife back, he will often make the mistake of buying her flowers, being extra nice to her and becoming a helpful ex husband in the hope that it impresses her. Yet, if one of the main reasons why she left him was due to him lacking masculinity (i.e how he thinks, feels, behaves, talks) around her, she isn't going to be impressed by extra niceness. If you are serious about getting your wife back, you've got to be willing to make changes and improvements that really matter to her, rather than expecting her to be wooed by your sudden desire to romance her, be extra nice and show her how much you care. To learn more about how to get your wife back, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html
Views: 42777 Dan Bacon
How to Tell My Ex That I Want a Relationship Without Scaring Her Off
 
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In most cases, asking an ex for a relationship before you’ve re-attracted her with cause her to say, “No.” She will say things like, “I’m sorry, but I just don’t feel the same way anymore,” or, “I love you as a person, but I’m not in love with you.” In other words, she wants you to create a spark with her first, rather than trying to go for the end goal of a relationship. So, if you want to get your ex back into a relationship, you need to do the following: 1. Stop asking for a relationship. 2. Get her to feel attracted to you again. 3. Talk to her as though everything is cool between you and her. 4. Start by hooking up again. 5. Don't rush to get her to commit. You can get a second chance with her (or even third or fourth chance if you’ve stuffed up plenty of times before), but you have to be prepared to properly re-attract her. Just telling your ex that you want her back or asking for another chance will almost certainly cause you to get rejected, because she’s just not feeling the spark with you right now. Where guys fail in getting their ex back is by trying to convince her to take them back or to try again, even though he hasn’t been making her feel attracted to him yet. If you would like to learn more about how to get your ex back, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 25873 Dan Bacon
How Much Space Should You Give Your Ex Before Contacting Her?
 
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If you have been giving your ex some space since the break up and it isn't making her run back to you, I recommend that you don't waste any more time ignoring her or not contacting her. Why? The most important part of getting a woman back is starting to make her feel SOME level of respect and attraction for you when she interacts with you via text, on the phone and in person. When you begin to make her feel some level of respect and attraction for you, her guard will come down and she will begin to reconnect with her old feelings for you. When that happens, she will be more willing to meet up with you in person and give the relationship another chance. Some guys ask me questions like, "How long should I wait for my ex to come back?" and "Does giving your ex space work?" and the answer is that it depends on your situation. If you've broken up many times and she really hates you right now or has no feelings for you at all, it's fine to give her 2-7 days of space. However any longer than that and you are just wasting time and giving her a chance to move on without you. To get a woman back, you have to start actively making her feel SOMETHING for you when you interact with her via text, on the phone and in person. When you do that, her guard will come down and she will open back up to you. To learn exactly what to say and do to get your ex back, visit my website: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html Cheers Dan P.S. If you've been using the No Contact Rule as a way to hopefully get your ex back and it isn't working, the reason why is that she still hasn't experienced a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you. She will be moving on with a negative perception of you that she has been holding onto since the break up. You have to change that negative perception to a positive one by interacting with her and letting her experience the new and improved version of you.
Views: 60000 Dan Bacon
The Attraction Scale: Control How Much Attraction a Woman Feels For You
 
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A woman’s level of attraction for you can go up or down, based on how you talk to her, behave around her and how you get her to behave around you. On a scale of 1 to 10, I have broken down The Attraction Scale into 4 levels: 0-3, 4-6 , 7-8 and 9-10. In a pick up scenario, you need to get a woman’s attraction for you to a 9-10 level if you want to ensure a successful pick up and gain access to high quality women. You can still pick up many women at a lower level of attraction (e.g. making her feel 7-8 level of attraction and at times, 4-6 level), but if you want consistent results (i.e. phone number, kiss, sex, date and/or relationship) with high quality women, you need to be able to make women feel a 9-10 level of attraction for you based on how you talk to them, behave around them and get them to behave around you. In a relationship, you need to keep your woman’s attraction between a 7 and a 10 if you want to ensure that she is attracted to you, in love and will initiate sex, be affectionate, treat you well and be loyal. If a woman’s attraction for her man slips below a 7 for too long when in a relationship, she will begin to complain and hope that he changes and is able to make her feel enough attraction to justify staying in the relationship. By the way… It’s not difficult to attract women, or to control how much attraction they feel for you. You may have noticed that guys who are naturally good at attracting women, or guys who have learned how to attract women like a natural are effortlessly able to make women feel anywhere from a 7-10 level of attraction for them all the time. It's so damn easy for them. They don’t have to try hard to make it happen. They do it effortlessly because it’s second nature to them. I explain this reality in the video by giving a comparison example of when you first learned how to drive a car. Initially, it might have felt challenging and you may have had to think and concentrate while doing it, but now it’s second nature to you and you do it effortlessly and easily. The same applies to your ability to attract women. In both pick up and relationship scenarios, you can use your ability to make a woman feel attracted to you to get exactly what you want from her. Once you master the skill and it becomes second nature for you, you no longer have to think a lot or concentrate on trying to be successful with women. It just happens naturally, easily and effortlessly for you. To learn more about how to attract women to pick them up for sex or relationships, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html To learn more about how to attract your woman in a relationship, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan P.S. If you haven’t already subscribed to my Youtube channel, click here to do that now: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1
Views: 104313 Dan Bacon
7 Simple Rules For Getting Your Ex Back
 
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The 7 simple rules for getting your ex back are: 1. Actively re-attract her, rather than ignoring her. 2. Don't beg, plead or try to convince her to give you another chance. 3. Don't ask for forgiveness if you haven't changed anything yet, or if you don't even know how to change. 4. Only text her to get on a phone call or to spark some attraction. 5. Don't be afraid of telling her that you love her or miss her. 6. Don't feel as though you're not allowed to make her feel attracted to you anymore. 7. Stop saying and doing things that are turning her off. The most important part of getting your ex back is to actively begin making her have feelings for you again. In most cases, all you need is a little spark and she will immediately begin to think differently and become more open to communicating with you and interacting with you in person. All you need to do then is remain confident as you quickly build on that spark and guide her back into a relationship with you. If you need more helping while getting your ex back, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 40735 Dan Bacon
How to Make Her Never Want to Leave You
 
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Go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html When a woman first gets into a relationship and falls in love, she will often eventually say things like, "I love you so much...I want us to grow old together" or, "I want to have your babies" or, "I want us to get married and be together forever." It's all very nice at the start when she is feeling lots of lust and is excited about the new love she has found. However, if a man is unable to deepen her feelings of respect, attraction and love over time...she will change. Even though she once promised that she would be with him forever, she now starts thinking about cheating on him or leaving. The secret of how to make a woman never want to leave you is revealed in the video above. To learn more, go to: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html Cheers Dan Bacon
Views: 477240 Dan Bacon
An Easy Way to Attract Women
 
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Attracting women is actually very easy when you use the right approach. In this video, I provide you with 3 examples of how to attract women and make them want you in a sexual way, by being UNPREDICTABLE. Being unpredictable allows you to stand out from the crowd of guys who are all hoping to get a chance to stick it in her, or to be her boyfriend or more. The reality is that if the woman you want is physically beautiful, then she knows that lots of guys would like the chance to have sex with her. Ever since she became a woman, she’s had men pursuing her in the same old ways…and she is very bored of it. What excites an attractive woman like her, is a man who has the balls to say or do things that other guys are afraid to say or do around her. (Watch video for examples). When he does, she feels excited to have finally met a guy who isn’t always on his best behavior around her, hoping to get a chance to have sex with her or be her boyfriend. He actually has the balls to mess with her in a playful way and make her feel like she needs to impress him. When she notices that he isn’t trying hard to get a chance with her, she starts flirting and showing lots of interest to see if she can get him to behave like other guys do around her. Yet, when he doesn’t change and is still ballsy enough to mess with her in a playful way and expect her to impress him, she feels intrigued and then tries even harder to get him to like her and behave like other guys do. In the process of trying to make him feel that way, she falls for him and ends up hoping to get a chance with him. As a result of her sexual interest in him, he can then easily get her number, kiss her, have sex with her or get into a relationship with her. That right there, is an easy way to attract women / attract girls and make them want you. To learn many more ways to attract women, so you can easily get laid or get a girlfriend, go to: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Cheers Dan Bacon Author of The Flow and founder of The Modern Man
Views: 179299 Dan Bacon
4 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get the Girl They Want
 
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If a guy isn’t good looking, he will usually blame his lack of success on that. Yet, if a guy is good looking, what can he blame his lack of success with women on? Well, many good looking guys automatically begin to think that it must be because they’re not successful enough in life, or that they need to wear better clothes or go to the gym to build more muscle. Meanwhile, they will notice that guys who aren’t even successful in life, wear ordinary clothes and don’t even go to the gym are able to attract pretty women for sex and relationships. So, what the heck is going on? Why do good looking guys rarely get the girl that they REALLY want? In the video above, I explain the following 4 reasons in detail: 1. He gets a lot of attention from women, but is usually only pursued by women who aren't as attractive as the ones he really wants. 2. He is confused about why beautiful women look at him and seem to find him attractive, but don't seem interested when he starts talking to them. 3. He doesn't want to ruin the illusion that his friends have of him. 4. He uses Tinder or online dating, rather than approaching women that he finds attractive in real life. Here’s the thing… Whether you are very good looking, good looking, average looking (that’s me), below average looking or even ugly, you have to accept one, simple fact about women. That is, in almost all cases, if you want the type of woman you REALLY want, you have to talk to her in person and make her feel attracted to you based on your personality traits and behaviors. That is the truth. Sometimes, a good looking guy won’t have to do that because the woman will like him enough to want him just based on his looks. Yet, if a guy doesn’t get that kind of reaction from a woman he really likes, he has to MAKE HER feel attracted to him as he talks to her. Since I am an average looking guy (or below average, depending on who is doing the rating), I was pretty much forced to have to figure out how to attract women as I talked to them. Thankfully, it is the easiest thing that you will ever learn how to do in your life. It’s ridiculous how easy it is to attract and pick up pretty women when you know how to attract them as you TALK to them. If you want to learn exactly what to say and do to attract women as you talk to them, I recommend that you read my eBook The Flow, or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html See you in the next video! Cheers Dan
Views: 345517 Dan Bacon
How to Get Your Relationship Back to the Way it Was
 
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One of the ways to get your relationship back to the way it was in the beginning, is to take control of how much attraction you are allowing her to feel for you. For example: If you’ve gotten into the habit of not initiating affection, or just being neutral around her like a friend, then she’s not going to feel the butterflies and passion that naturally happens when there is a lot of hugging, kissing and touching. Of course, if you are many years into a relationship or marriage, you might feel as though you and her have passed that stage and it’s more about being friends now. You can take that path if you want to, but it won’t lead to feelings of sexual and romantic love. You will just feel like friends and after a while, one of you may get bored and stray or initiate a break up or divorce. So, what should you do instead? Focus on the fact that there are so many couples out there who fall more and more in love with each other over time. Their love doesn’t fade away. Either does the sexual attraction. How do they do it? There are so many ways that I can teach you to build on the respect, sexual attraction and love in your relationship or marriage, but one way is the example I give in this video. It’s about not being afraid to re-initiate the kind of interactions that you and her used to have. Be warned though… If she has fallen into the habit of not reciprocating your attempts at being affectionate, she may initially act like that when you begin to try. So, you have to be prepared for that and ensure that you don’t get angry, annoyed or lose confidence and give up. Be prepared to handle a bit of resistance from her initially if there is any and she will either quickly warm up to that kind of behavior between you and her again, or it may take a few days or a couple of weeks. Whatever the case is for you, if you want the relationship to go back to the way it was, you have to be the emotionally stronger one as the man. It’s essential that you have that emotional strength, so she can follow along with the direction that you are taking the relationship again. When she does, she will realize that she feels so much happier being more loving and affectionate and you can build on that from there. If you’d like to learn more about how to continually increase her feelings of respect, attraction and love for you, all of my best ever techniques and methods are here: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html BTW: If you haven’t already subscribed to my dating and relationship advice for men channel here on Youtube, you can click here to do that now: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1 Cheers Dan
Views: 22710 Dan Bacon