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Bob Ross, the beloved painter, liked to say, "There's no such thing as mistakes, just happy little accidents."
Generally, I think this is great life advice (from a true legend).
But sometimes avoiding mistakes is the difference between happiness and heartbreak!
Today I want to help you avoid those mistakes that lead to heartbreak.
They're completely avoidable, but so many women make them because they don't know better.
This is especially true for smart, ambitious women who have succeeded in every area of their life, but still struggle with dating.
Is this you?
Today I want to reveal 7 major dating mistakes even smart women make, and how you can avoid them.
Here's the truth:
These mistakes aren't all obvious.
Some are actually pretty damn hard to avoid unless you're consciously aware of them.
Becoming aware of and avoiding these 7 major dating mistakes is what today's video is all about.
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7 Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make - Summary
Texting a guy how you feel
It's almost never a good idea.
Rather than always texting what you feel, be courageous and bring your feelings to real-life interactions…
… because that's where real intimacy actually exists.
Trying to make a bad guy into a good guy
Ambitious women bring their ambition to their relationships.
When they meet a guy who is exciting and interesting, but isn't the type of man that will make her happy…
… rather than saying, "You know what? I'm done with this,"…
…. she goes into repair mode, doing everything she can to turn him into the right type of guy for her.
This won't work.
If you notice that a guy is not the right guy for you, move on and find the right one.
Looking for the perfect partner
A lot of smart, ambitious people want to take their perfectionism to relationships…
… but the more you get to know someone, the more you discover imperfections about them.
It's actually the imperfection you discover that makes you fall even deeper in love with that person.
Getting to know him sexually before knowing if he can keep up with you intellectually
Quite simply, do the opposite :)
Expecting him to be your boyfriend before he is actually your boyfriend
It's easy to assume that you are suddenly in a relationship with someone when things are going well…
… but unless it is explicitly clear that you are in a relationship, you have to assume he's probably seeing other people as well.
Assuming he's a good person just because he's smart and charming
Sadly, smart people can be the most dangerous people in relationships.
Seeing what you want to see rather than the reality of who they really are
It's so important to keep logic in the equation rather than always leading with your emotion.
Have you made any of these mistakes? What did you learn? I'd love to hear from you in the comments below.
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I have a problem
He is not my Boyfriend he is my friend and like a brother too but the thing is i made a mistake i didn't trust him and he felt bad and we forget about that thing but after that he don't talk to me as he was doing before he don't really sharing his felling and experience he ends the call when I'm saying something and says someone is calling him and stuff
I fell like he is not interested to talk to me like before
And I was felling hurt at first but niw its been 1 and half months he is doing this so i m kind of getting moved from our friendship....... but i want to get my brotherly friend back
Will you plz help me.....
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Oh how to choose just one.... 6) because I see the good in a troubled person . I just want add to their life and watch them shine! Can a girl be a white Knight? 2) intelligence is so drawing, but what I have found is manipulation has been in the undercurrent. 1) I have Rose Colored glasses syndrome. Seeing true colors is being worked on. Thank you Adam, I have been looking up your videos for empowerment and reminding myself of relationship goals. I greatly appreciate your candor wisdom and style.
We have only small talk on whatsapp but interresting conversation when he is with me.
Mostly i text him first (he do also sometimes but only in the morning . After the goodmorning smaltalk we talk this day only again if i text something .
He is so shy and verry bissy and has not many time .
Is he realy into me ?
Sexy Confidence - Hahaha, do heterosexuals even date anymore? Lesbians and Gay men have it way easier when it comes to dating, specifically when you live in bog cities. Men and women don't trust each other anymore and so, not sure why you're trying to help women date men. There aren't many quality men to even date for all women.
Heyy Adam, first thank you for all your helpful videos !! I have an important question to ask you. One guy that i knew since 5 years said to me one month ago that he loved me. And when I was next to the region where he lives he was coming to see me but he told me that his friends didn't let him to drive late at night because they was drinking. And this week he didn't texted me for like 2 days in a row and when he felt that i was annoyed by him he sended me a voice message apologizing. Now the thing is I want him to make effort to see me and if he doesn't it isn't true love.. what i'm supposed to do?
adam, man youve changed. what is with this vulgar language man? seriously how am i meant to get sexy confidenc when you abuse me through the screen. nah just kidding all love from my end, you really helped me get a wife, love me and the kids x
Hey Adam... I love your advice but there is one point I can´t admit as right.
So I met a guy about one month ago and all was going great, we had magnificent dates until I noticed he chats with other women in between.
I am so confused whether to move on to the next guy or to wait because it is something acceptable in the beginning for him to check the market, as we are not in a relationship yet. Thank you!
Great video! My biggest mistake was number 3... I am always trying to categorise everything so it is the easiest way is to say "So since now we are in relationship." ...crazy but true :D Thanks for your amazing videos!!!!
Can you please make a video on 3rd party situation. I found myself falling in love over the summer with someone at work with 3 baby mommas and who admitted to cheating on his current and only staying with her due to their child together. He kept wanting and insisting I wait for her to move out but my conscious would not allow it. I don’t know if he was a narcissist or truly in love with me. But this love triangle was causing me to lose sleep and feel stressed.
I find "perfect" to be seen out of context as perfect to me is a person who accepts their flaws and such and using them to their advantage to be more confident and sexier even more appealing.
I find flaws and such to be "perfect" as it's part of who they are and flaws are what drives us to be better people.
Whether anyone agrees or not is upto to them but I find everything about a person to be "perfect" just depends on how you perceive perfection.
Yup I learned a lot from all these when I dated my first ex. He was very abusive, sexual, physically and mentally. I've learned that I'm better off alone. If the right guy comes along great if not I'm ok with that too.
Hi can someone help? ❤ so i met my crush a year ago and he was so into me he kissed me and everything we got along so well I fell like I was apart of him. Unfortunately we live in the same town but its hard to see each other because we are teenagers and we can't drive etc. So, a couple days ago after months of not seeing him or doing anything I finally see him again. He started kissing me and touching me again so clearly he wasn't over me. After that i started to text my crush. I saw that his bio said "Taken" and I was confused as to why, I also noticed that he barely texts me back, I always have to be the one to sometimes start the convo, so I told him how I felt and he was like "I liked you and you know that i liked you, but I don't want long distance relationships rn and I've been so hurt and I'm going through serious things right now, you're an amazing sweet girl though" like wtf???
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So i met this guy on a chat site..
And he falls in love instantly.. his wife died 7 years ago.. .. So yes men are wired diffrently.. but i cant fathom the instant love.... And he expects me to feel same way too development.. I told him baby steps..
Can't shake the fact that I'll have to measure up to a dead woman.. cos a few facts has been mentioned already.. what do I do?
Yes I like him.. We have a date in two weeks time.. I'need to know how to prepare for this meeting
Jasmiena Jansen, fair enough. I hope he understands. My ex said "oh, we're gonna get married," on our 1st date...and red flags went up for me. But we got to know each other (and more red flags popped up); so I was glad I took it slow. You'll be a-ok! 👍🌞
Jasmiena Jansen, that's tough. Do you know for sure that he's properly grieved his wife? If so, then perhaps you can gently explain your feelings...like, you certainly like him, but you're someone who'd rather move slower & get to know him (as he gets to know you). If you're an individual who takes more time to fall head-over-heels, then so-be-it. But then again, there those who simply know a good thing when they see it, girl! 😉👍Good luck!
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Oh Lord, I just wanna quit dating! I just learned about his (my crush for years) engagement to his tinder thot! I‘m furious! He never wanted to commit when he was with me and now he ends up marryin‘ the ultimative mediocre tinder thot! She‘s ugly, too! I just can‘t! After just one year of dating? Ugh. Why? Not the first time I hear men do this non-sense!
Yes i have done almost all these mistakes 😅, thanks for your advice you have helped me feel better with my self with all your videos and has given me alot of good advice that really has worked😁 thank you ❤
My husband of 45 years past away. I now find myself in today's world of dating. I am a bit shy, I am a confident middle-aged woman that just can't seem to get past two weeks or month of seeing someone. I'm told I do not look my age and that I'm a beautiful woman but there's something there that I can't put my finger on it why things do not work. It seems like all the guys want to move in with me and that's not what I'm after. I'm looking for a foundation first and then a serious relationship but seems like we can't get past the building of foundation. Do not know what I am doing other than not doing the stay over night thing which I am not ready for at an early stage of the relationship. If you could please share some light. Is it me or the the type of guy I seem to be get involved with ? This was alot easier when I was younger.
I watch your videos as a guy, and i understand a lot more about myself, i smile more, i approach people. Yet... i am not a particularly a bad guy, i won't call myself a good guy, but my friends tell me i am. I have only been in 2 relationships and both have ended in cheating. Any advice?
Edit: Clarification, not me cheating, them.
Have a nice day everyone!
Lyrical, continue to be the one with integrity & always be sure to set your boundaries earlier on in your relationships. That way, if you both just wanna hang with each other, cool. Or if you both feel inclined to make it more exclusive, make that clear too. Sometimes she'll not want a relationship at the moment or maybe you won't want one. But if things change (intense feelings develop), then you guys can always renegotiate the seriousness of your relationship. Or not... Good luck!
Lyrical InsanityOvev. Thankyou for your kind words. It's not that, we can be ourselves round eacother, he just has trust issues due to being cheated on in the past. But it's really bad to the point where he doesn't want me seeing my personal trainer....
My mistake is I make out with the guy on the first date, espcially if he is hot! But I do tell them, that I don't want sex with them in the beginning, but just to make out, because I am very physically attracted to you! Maybe I should hold off the physical part. 🤔 Thank you Adam!
Blissful One personally I don’t ask women out on a second date if I don’t get a kiss. Simply because I don’t want to date women that don’t have the same level of interest in me that I do with her. The kiss is a date to check how interested she is. However if she has sex to soon I can easily lose interest because I think “hmm dose she do this with every guy”
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