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There's a fatal mistake people make when planning a first date…
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I once chatted with a guy who was only willing to meet at the beach to get to 3rd base instantly on our first "date" (he refused to get drinks/dinner)....despite having chatted via text and phone convo for 2.5 weeks very flirtatiously and easily....He immediately moved from potential to Minimal Investment dude.
I took a girl out the other night(she was pretty shy but she opened up) and agreed to a second date. I said I'd call her the following day but she didn't get back to me,she did tell me she'd let me know when she got her schedule on sat/Sunday. I feel like I messed up 😭😭
I had lunch date with this chick at the end of the date she gave me a kiss and said have a good day I was so happy I said "no you have a magical day" and sort of skipped away like Charlie and the chocolate factory, I dont even believe in magic wtf
I always pick a movie. Especially if I met them online. I see them a few mins and if I don't like them. I ignore them and watch the movie peacefully 😂 Then if I like them enough we can eat or get froyo. If not I leave and never call them again. 😁
This whole video is exactly what’s wrong with dating in 2019. Someone says something you don’t like or agree with and you automatically write them off forever??? I’m sorry that would mean you’re a shallow, narrow minded, and fickle person and I wouldn’t want to be with a person like that to begin with 🤷♀️
"Earned it"? The sense of entitlement and self import here is astounding. How about a bit of courtesy and respect and, dare I say it, manners? All of this waffle about setting out plans/objectives and then watching for a fail, or even the eagerness to veto someone for a faux pas.
Jesus wept. I seriously hope I never encounter any women who have imbibed this Caligula mindset.
Matthew, I love you. You are the dating God. I have just had a date precisely according to what you said. Three short intensive parts, very direct, honest, normal conversation, subtle flirting and it was perfect. You are the dating Expert (notice the capital E, please). It made me realize that date can be just like a hockey match - three short intensive parts with small breaks in between, in total two hours. Short, simple but intensive. Convo is direct and honest, but subtle, nice and flirty. Guys, girls, follow this if you want to experience the best date ever. The trick is, to be honest with the person you are into and don't be scared of something unknown. The trick is, to find the balance. Thank you A LOT, Matthew. Please continue with your videos, because they are precious. Good luck you people, reading this comment, dating. Big thumbs up. 👍
You dont see the behind the scenes of being a girl. The makeup, the clothes, the hair etc. etc.. its not cheap, and its time consumung... so being taken to a nice dinner is rewarding for all that, it also shows that the guy has class and isn't just taking me to some bar to get wasted...
I had a dinner date this weekend with a new guy and it went really well, he asked me out to go skating this weekend sooooo...
A real man initiates...
I met a girl from pof .I figured 1st meeting drinks or coffee.She got to the restaurant before me so .I asked her if you get anything for yourself can you get me a tea ,and I'll give you the money when I get there .Shs replied" no thank you I'm all set " I arrive at the restaurant and she literally demanded that I buy her dinner.I am the most generous person in the world ,but this woman's attitude sucked..I ended up walking out and leaving !!
ok ok really helphul all those things BUT WHAT YOU DO WHEN TODAY IS YOUR FIRST DATE WITH SOMEONE (realy hot haha) THAT SPEAKS ONLY ENGLISH AND YOU ARE SO BAD IN ENGLISH (wish me good luck people #ohgod )
New Thought exactly my thought. I have only had good experiences with dinner dates as first dates. A bad first date Is going to the cinema or another place like it where you really can't talk freely and get to know each other
Bowling. Hmmm. Ok. How about play some football. Throw the ball around. Do typical guy things. Have fun, run amok in the park. Find a common interest and go with that. Don't focus on trying to win him over, just focus on being best buds. ;)
As a guy who’s dated a lot, take a girl out for coffee first! Not even drinks. Don’t act desperate, be interested, listen to what she has to say, if she is interested she will ask you questions and engage. If she does not engage and seems like she’s uncomfortable then very smoothly end it with some excuse but don’t be rude or even show you are disappointed. Smile make eye contact say your goodbyes (kinda like you would with your bank manager) and move on to the next gal. Also whatever you do DONT ask her if there will another date, or should you call her etc.
Hey I’d like ur guys opinion on something! This guy I really like asked me to go to the movies with him. We had AP bio together last year but we never rly talked until now. Is the movies a good idea? Should I suggest something else and how? We’re both in high school btw.
I have never had a date with someone (im 14 yr lol) and the best first date for me is like meet up having no clue where to go. Ask her where she want to go. For example we go to grab a drink or smth and then we sit on a bench just talk.
This girl and I originally were gonna go out to dinner but she had to cancel because of something. Anyway we ended up just hanging out and going to this hookah bar that’s a half hour away. We talked non stop from the second we met up, I even broke the physical contact barrier right away. All the way to the hookah lounge, it was one of the realest conversations I’ve had. When we got there, she had forgotten her ID but so we ended up going back to her house and smoking a bunch of weed. It was an amazing first date and she was fucking beautiful. I guess the lesson here is be flexible, and don’t let shit ruin the date. Our original plan got fucked up, and the back up plan got fucked up, and we both still had an amazing time:)
I met a woman online and we finally set up a date after about a month of texting and chatting on the phone. We agreed to go see a movie but she wanted to see it at a Hi-Def 3d movie theater. The nearest Hi-Def theater was 30 minutes north of her, she lived 30 minutes north of me so the theater was an hour away from me. So instead of going to the Hi-Def theater, I asked if we could just go to a regular theater nearby. She responded by saying she really wants to see the movie in Hi-Def. I then suggested that I drive to meet her near her place, then she can drive the rest of the way to the Hi-Def theater. She then responded by saying she's been having car problems. It bothered me that she insisted on going to a particular theater but she wasn't willing to drive there/she didn't have a car. I thought us finally meeting in person was the point of the date, not the theater. Needless to say, I backed out of the date. The fact that she was unwilling to compromise really turned me off. I'd like to know what you all think about this.
It helps if you use a decent dating website, text and talk on the phone, then you get a real feel for the person. I had a great drinks, dinner, drink date with a guy from outer state. But I think we were both quite attracted to each other which helps.
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