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#1 Rule For A Perfect First Date (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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No Name (9 days ago)
this guy about to save my whole love life
Katelyn Bagnall (10 days ago)
Damn he asked me 2 dinner
Emilie A (12 days ago)
Haha its a dinner date at his place and watching a movie so, i guess I'll work out?
Ali Moeini (13 days ago)
Thanks😊🙏
Yohana Reyna (18 days ago)
Looked up "first date Matthew hussey"....this comes up and the first thing he says is a dinner is a bad idea ...... I have a dinner date tonight🙁😶💔😭😂😂
Karthik Gnanakumar (7 days ago)
mine’s in 2 hours 😰
C K (20 days ago)
Have a meet and greet getting coffee
Adam Mcgrath (1 month ago)
Dog park date is perfect.
CarmenQueen (1 month ago)
Arhghhh have a first date tonight and its a diner
God is Good (1 month ago)
English American captain America Thor Spider-Man all in one
Evan Backues (1 month ago)
Lol who actually goes bowling on a first date that would be a death sentence in my town
Nathan Alder (2 months ago)
Saying you gotta go see your friends is the worst thing u can do m8 she’ll think that she’s a waste of time
Susan (2 months ago)
Great ideas for the first date!
keep itsteel (2 months ago)
dude..why you making out having to stay and eat food with someone you dont think you like is the end of the world lol..
J T (2 months ago)
I once chatted with a guy who was only willing to meet at the beach to get to 3rd base instantly on our first "date" (he refused to get drinks/dinner)....despite having chatted via text and phone convo for 2.5 weeks very flirtatiously and easily....He immediately moved from potential to Minimal Investment dude.
Hannes Visagie (2 months ago)
How long are these evenings?
wolf days (2 months ago)
I took a girl out the other night(she was pretty shy but she opened up) and agreed to a second date. I said I'd call her the following day but she didn't get back to me,she did tell me she'd let me know when she got her schedule on sat/Sunday. I feel like I messed up 😭😭
Isaac Childers (3 months ago)
Lunch date tomorrow afternoon.. Little nervous now..
A Luong (3 months ago)
people who tend to overthink: we been knew this really good tips tho
Take the red pill (3 months ago)
1. Don’t be on the phone
Mamadou Dem (3 months ago)
“what you do if he orders dessert you’re screwed for another 30 minutes” 😂😂😂
zineb rhim (3 months ago)
Thank you
justin carter (3 months ago)
I had lunch date with this chick at the end of the date she gave me a kiss and said have a good day I was so happy I said "no you have a magical day" and sort of skipped away like Charlie and the chocolate factory, I dont even believe in magic wtf
Caden Sifert (3 months ago)
You should do a video with Marni (wing girl).
Amy Galvin (3 months ago)
So true! I was stuck in a 4 hour 3 course meal trapped with a man that talked non-stopped about himself the entire time!
pinkprincezz31 (4 months ago)
I always pick a movie. Especially if I met them online. I see them a few mins and if I don't like them. I ignore them and watch the movie peacefully 😂 Then if I like them enough we can eat or get froyo. If not I leave and never call them again. 😁
mikky (4 months ago)
Erghgh I have an intimidating date 2nite!!!
Mommy Mama (4 months ago)
He looks like the Dr. on Grey's Anatomy. Seriously....
Lee Fray (4 months ago)
This whole video is exactly what’s wrong with dating in 2019. Someone says something you don’t like or agree with and you automatically write them off forever??? I’m sorry that would mean you’re a shallow, narrow minded, and fickle person and I wouldn’t want to be with a person like that to begin with 🤷‍♀️
richard walker (4 months ago)
"Earned it"? The sense of entitlement and self import here is astounding. How about a bit of courtesy and respect and, dare I say it, manners? All of this waffle about setting out plans/objectives and then watching for a fail, or even the eagerness to veto someone for a faux pas. Jesus wept. I seriously hope I never encounter any women who have imbibed this Caligula mindset.
Brian Cain (5 months ago)
I'm not gay I just want to refute information as a guy...I swear!
Juliet Wolfová (5 months ago)
Matthew, I love you. You are the dating God. I have just had a date precisely according to what you said. Three short intensive parts, very direct, honest, normal conversation, subtle flirting and it was perfect. You are the dating Expert (notice the capital E, please). It made me realize that date can be just like a hockey match - three short intensive parts with small breaks in between, in total two hours. Short, simple but intensive. Convo is direct and honest, but subtle, nice and flirty. Guys, girls, follow this if you want to experience the best date ever. The trick is, to be honest with the person you are into and don't be scared of something unknown. The trick is, to find the balance. Thank you A LOT, Matthew. Please continue with your videos, because they are precious. Good luck you people, reading this comment, dating. Big thumbs up. 👍
mvmedved (5 months ago)
If you don’t like the person just ditch him there, who says you can’t leave?)
meggers (5 months ago)
You dont see the behind the scenes of being a girl. The makeup, the clothes, the hair etc. etc.. its not cheap, and its time consumung... so being taken to a nice dinner is rewarding for all that, it also shows that the guy has class and isn't just taking me to some bar to get wasted... I had a dinner date this weekend with a new guy and it went really well, he asked me out to go skating this weekend sooooo... A real man initiates...
Micael8000 (5 months ago)
Great video! However... I'd like some examples of what to start off with (the first part of the date) other than "going for a drink". Appreciate all examples!
Caitlyn Ackerman (5 months ago)
*second chin has joined chat*
-- (6 months ago)
got one tomorrow and I’m so nervous it’s crazy
-- (5 months ago)
kinkyplunk yay that’s good, happy for you! :) happy new year
kinkyplunk (5 months ago)
@-- It was great. We're seeing each other again! :)
kinkyplunk (5 months ago)
@-- thank you! I'll let you know how it goes :)
-- (5 months ago)
kinkyplunk good luck!! So much less nerve wracking once you’ve broke the ice you will be fine :) let me know how it goes! (Have a good new year too!)
kinkyplunk (5 months ago)
@-- Glad to hear it. I have one on 2nd Jan! :/
Daily GTA 5 (6 months ago)
Ur gonna tell a girl ur gonna kick her ass if she don’t go bowling ??? Lol
Be1smaht (6 months ago)
Going on a date! Shit. I asked for a dinner date
Vivek Wadhwani (6 months ago)
Me: Takes her out for coffe Mutual enjoyable company. Suggests grocery shopping, more fun End uphaving dinner together. What was supposed to be 30 mins date, we spent about 4 hours together.
Josh Reyes (6 months ago)
If you have to EARN someone's time, they aren't right for you.
ART IN ONE (6 months ago)
He says.. "il tell you at the end of the video"... OK il skip to the end you Pratt!
musicvixen24 (6 months ago)
Literally on my way to a first date that is dinner. 😔
Robert Etchingham (6 months ago)
What about a simple lunch
Makeup TihVuhShik (6 months ago)
Yes so true that’s why I hate dates...I mean “typical “ one... how cool instead would be some festive or smth 🤭
Jessica J (6 months ago)
Any other non-dinner suggestions besides getting drinks and then bowling? What if you don’t drink & can’t bowl ‘cause of back issues?
Un1234l (6 months ago)
Lunch and then walk around park. Visiting interesting boutique stores around the city. Lunch/coffee definitely is a great starting point.
Christo (7 months ago)
I met a girl from pof .I figured 1st meeting drinks or coffee.She got to the restaurant before me so .I asked her if you get anything for yourself can you get me a tea ,and I'll give you the money when I get there .Shs replied" no thank you I'm all set " I arrive at the restaurant and she literally demanded that I buy her dinner.I am the most generous person in the world ,but this woman's attitude sucked..I ended up walking out and leaving !!
ok ok really helphul all those things BUT WHAT YOU DO WHEN TODAY IS YOUR FIRST DATE WITH SOMEONE (realy hot haha) THAT SPEAKS ONLY ENGLISH AND YOU ARE SO BAD IN ENGLISH (wish me good luck people #ohgod )
Kaseydilla (7 months ago)
i like movies cuz then you don't really need to talk
White Mail Privilege (4 months ago)
Kaseydilla yeah it’s a great wait to not get to know someone
Ayelet Yam (7 months ago)
Thank you. Im going on the first date of my life today, with a stranger, and were going to a resturant. Really thank you😭👿😡😭
Rebecca Persaud (7 months ago)
I bet he's single 😂 And giving advise
Blue -eyed (7 months ago)
Stupid advice. This moron thinks lying is a good idea and especially making an obvious lie. Is this shithole someone you wanna date ladies?
Jen O. (7 months ago)
sry but getting drinks on a date is not a good idea. I think the idea is good but maybe kinda hard to find 3 things to do. plus 3 things is a lot for one date. idk
MamaMiaItsKeya (8 months ago)
Lucky me! I’ve got a first date this evening and we planned to first get drinks at his favorite local dive and possibly go bowling after depending on how the drinks go lol.
Brianna Gendron (8 months ago)
The guy I have a crush on, we have the same interests.
Samantha jane Suarez (8 months ago)
I don't understand guys or men in general and I think that has been my problem all these years
New Thought (8 months ago)
Dinner is fine for a first date. You can learn about the other person and decide where to go from there, plus you get to eat!
Kristen K (2 months ago)
@Monika Kalecinska i like drink dates for first dates best. It's just the best. I don't like eating and talking so no dinner dates as first dates for me
Monika Kalecinska (8 months ago)
New Thought exactly my thought. I have only had good experiences with dinner dates as first dates. A bad first date Is going to the cinema or another place like it where you really can't talk freely and get to know each other
Adam Goodword (8 months ago)
Bowling. Hmmm. Ok. How about play some football. Throw the ball around. Do typical guy things. Have fun, run amok in the park. Find a common interest and go with that. Don't focus on trying to win him over, just focus on being best buds. ;)
Dez Allaby (9 months ago)
Makes so much sense now... Wow was i ever dumb 😂
Denise S (9 months ago)
FUCK! I Have a first dinner date in 30 minutes. And I already don't want to go 🙈
xMyPointlessChannelx (9 months ago)
I was surprised by your advice and I loved it! Thanks Mathew!
Andrew Rai (9 months ago)
As a guy who’s dated a lot, take a girl out for coffee first! Not even drinks. Don’t act desperate, be interested, listen to what she has to say, if she is interested she will ask you questions and engage. If she does not engage and seems like she’s uncomfortable then very smoothly end it with some excuse but don’t be rude or even show you are disappointed. Smile make eye contact say your goodbyes (kinda like you would with your bank manager) and move on to the next gal. Also whatever you do DONT ask her if there will another date, or should you call her etc.
Sara Mclaughlin (9 months ago)
How the fuck do you use all of this advice like it’s impossible I swear. Give up on dating? Who’s with me?
Rhea Morales (9 months ago)
What if you don't drink? I know coffee would be suggested next, but I drink neither alcohol nor coffee.
Arafa Arbab (9 months ago)
Thank you, coach,
Millie Charlotte (9 months ago)
Ahhh I’m so nervous! I’ve got a first date with my crush at a waterpark😬😬
Michelle Zareas (10 months ago)
I almost always do coffee for a first date. It’s perfect because it takes all of the pressure off of both of us! 😉
Animal Jammers (10 months ago)
My friends just set me up with one of thier friends tomorrow 😐
Dori TheFish (10 months ago)
Thanks Daniel Radcliffe, for this dating advice😂😂 (They sound exactly the same)
Paige Heartly (10 months ago)
Hey I’d like ur guys opinion on something! This guy I really like asked me to go to the movies with him. We had AP bio together last year but we never rly talked until now. Is the movies a good idea? Should I suggest something else and how? We’re both in high school btw.
Steffe I (10 months ago)
You the best
jennifer queen (10 months ago)
I've always been against "test dates" but you actually make a great point here of making the guy feel like he's earning it.
Daniel Kahn (10 months ago)
What makes you qualified?
jupiter 111 (10 months ago)
lol i went on a dinner date yesterday with a guy I just met on tinder and it went so well. he dropped me off at the train station and that's where we had our first kiss - it was beautiful
Monika Kalecinska (8 months ago)
jupiter 111 great to hear. I have a dinner date this evening with a guy from tinder and I'm getting nervous now after seeing this video
im good (10 months ago)
I have never had a date with someone (im 14 yr lol) and the best first date for me is like meet up having no clue where to go. Ask her where she want to go. For example we go to grab a drink or smth and then we sit on a bench just talk.
Bina Walburn (6 months ago)
bowling or putt putt (minture golf) are no stress, fun ideas and so is rollar skating.
Josephine Doe (10 months ago)
If you don’t find the person interesting lol EAT and DIP (EAD)
Autumn Jackson (11 months ago)
Oh my god your accent
DevynnEBMusic (11 months ago)
Aw crap I have a dinner date tomorrow, now I’m worried! wish I would’ve seen this earlier
DevynnEBMusic (10 months ago)
Julien Horan thanks for asking! Haha Well, it went better than I thought, but not as good as it could’ve been.
Julien Horan (10 months ago)
DevynnEBMusic how did it go?
MrKratosYT (11 months ago)
This girl and I originally were gonna go out to dinner but she had to cancel because of something. Anyway we ended up just hanging out and going to this hookah bar that’s a half hour away. We talked non stop from the second we met up, I even broke the physical contact barrier right away. All the way to the hookah lounge, it was one of the realest conversations I’ve had. When we got there, she had forgotten her ID but so we ended up going back to her house and smoking a bunch of weed. It was an amazing first date and she was fucking beautiful. I guess the lesson here is be flexible, and don’t let shit ruin the date. Our original plan got fucked up, and the back up plan got fucked up, and we both still had an amazing time:)
burnzism (11 months ago)
I met a woman online and we finally set up a date after about a month of texting and chatting on the phone. We agreed to go see a movie but she wanted to see it at a Hi-Def 3d movie theater. The nearest Hi-Def theater was 30 minutes north of her, she lived 30 minutes north of me so the theater was an hour away from me. So instead of going to the Hi-Def theater, I asked if we could just go to a regular theater nearby. She responded by saying she really wants to see the movie in Hi-Def. I then suggested that I drive to meet her near her place, then she can drive the rest of the way to the Hi-Def theater. She then responded by saying she's been having car problems. It bothered me that she insisted on going to a particular theater but she wasn't willing to drive there/she didn't have a car. I thought us finally meeting in person was the point of the date, not the theater. Needless to say, I backed out of the date. The fact that she was unwilling to compromise really turned me off. I'd like to know what you all think about this.
Bina Walburn (6 months ago)
I am a female. I think you dodged a bullet, You made the RIGHT choice.
Monika Kalecinska (8 months ago)
burnzism I think you made the right choice
Morgan Andreas (11 months ago)
Hey I just had a dinner date with someone and after dinner all he wanted to do was have sex was so uncomfortable 😣
Inky Pinky (1 year ago)
Bowling brakes nails 🤪
dragonheadz (1 year ago)
I got movie date tommorow
Miriama Patuwai (1 year ago)
You might want to change your last name...just saying
Valerie Roussos (1 year ago)
when youve already made the first mistake
Hugo Haddock (1 year ago)
# 1 rule is watching this video!! Thanks man!
ariel kyloan (1 year ago)
Went to a date with a guy then he said he was in jail for 10 years for malicious wounding. That did it for me
MissHannah2036 (1 year ago)
It helps if you use a decent dating website, text and talk on the phone, then you get a real feel for the person. I had a great drinks, dinner, drink date with a guy from outer state. But I think we were both quite attracted to each other which helps.
Patrik Němeček (1 year ago)
I have my date in 2 days, and idk if the pizza + wine outside you know like looking at the stars or some other things is good.. Im 19 so idk if the girl in my age will appreciate it
Isaiah lee (1 year ago)
“There’s a fatal mistake that people make when your planing a date” lmao 😂😂 0:00
BluntForceTrauma ss (1 year ago)
This date is going well how about we go to bed And let me have desert /._./
Catalina barqa (1 year ago)
So coffee it is or drink it is.
LoveMe,com (1 year ago)
Matthew is a great advisor! If someone who goes on dates right now and consider Matthew’s advice, I am sure he/she will have a perfect date.
ggsplace69 (1 year ago)
Hey how about he says no thanks Huh!!
Stephen J (1 year ago)
well sure but if my dinner date isn't going well I can just climb out the bathroom window
thisismusic (1 year ago)
Is this for gay guys?
willie wilson (1 year ago)
Thank you Harry Potter
Seriously, I was shocked there are big crap men, who woudl behave so fucking badly with a woman on first date. I never met douchebags in my real life but yes I met em through online dates
Every video I open, I promise myself that it's the last one... N again I end up watching more of Mathew Hussey videos 🤓
GreenBaray38 (1 year ago)
Well shit. 45 seconds in and this guy just shot down the dinner date idea and I have my first in two days. Oh boy.
sofia aznaran (1 year ago)
Is the cinema a good place for a first date? (Ps. my date is my classmate from college)

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