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This week we discuss the 14 Red Flags to look for in a relationship. Read the original article below: http://artofmanliness.com/2013/01/31/relationship-red-flags/ Reviving the lost art of manliness with a manly video every Friday. http://artofmanliness.com Follow us! http://facebook.com/artofmanliness http://twitter.com/artofmanliness http://instagram.com/artofmanliness http://google.com/+artofmanliness
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Paul Lewis (4 days ago)
Such a good reminder. Can't put with the princess anymore. I'm working on me to be the guy the girl that I want is looking for. And she is not a princess or a drama queen.
im1who84u (4 days ago)
The old societal model was: A young woman would trade her youth and fertility exclusively to only one man, and he in turn would be the workhorse and take care of her when she gets past her prime. This was a great incentive for men to work, become men, and get married. You got a prize, a young beautiful loyal wife. In theory, as we know life isn't perfect. She does him a favor early on by being a virgin/exclusive and later he does her a favor by staying and supporting her instead of leaving her for a younger woman. They both get a prize. The new societal model is: Women whore around and waste their youth and fertility on Chad/Tyrone, get walled out, get STDs, lose their ability to pair bond, rapidly accelerate their aging process with excessive alcohol and fast food, and have no loyalty to any man. What sensible man would pay top dollar for something 30 other men got for free? The incentive for men is gone. You don't get a prize anymore. You get a parasite with an entitlement mentality that’s looking to take your resources and then some. Before you even say “I do” at the altar, she’s already plotting how to financially rape your ass in family court when she divorces your sorry ass in a few years. Why do you think she’s smiling as she’s walking down the aisle? A woman’s main reason for getting married is to get a divorce. You're expected to pay a premium price for a used up, beaten up, soulless woman from the bargain basement bins of some store in the hood with the morals of an alley cat, an in denial, freak of nature, pathologically delusional, self-esteem deficient, morally bankrupt, bottom dwelling, blood sucking, inhuman, creature of the night, bitch on wheels, spawned from the seed of Satan, and a boil on the buttocks of the world. When she dies, the last living reminder of hell will be gone from the face of the earth. She has kids from Chad/Tyrone or both, personal credit card debt, no assets, school debt for a worthless degree in liberal arts or gender studies, no cooking skills and no desire to learn any, no fiscal responsibility, an overly banged vagina, and a pet you’ll be expected to take care of as well. And you're supposed to be happy about this opportunity to lick up the scraps from the floor. The so-called good men she wants and can’t find are out there. They just don’t want her at the table because she has nothing to bring except financial and emotional pain. When women say, "Men are only after one thing". Meaning sex. My question to them is, do you have anything else to offer. Crickets is all I hear. Which means even they don't believe they have anything else to offer. In addition, she also has great expectations you’ll do everything for her, make her feel better, and provide an unrealistic unsustainable life style she feels she deserves because she read about it some feminazi magazine article that hates men. All this while she cheats behind your back with the “bad boys” she really wants while you’re at work paying all the bills for this little parasite. Women don’t “love men”, they love what men can do for them. Where are all the great art works female artists have created, inspired by their love of men? Men are not afraid of commitment or marriage…. Men are afraid of getting divorce raped in “family court.” It’s just a bad deal and there’s nothing in it for men except the chance to be financially ruined for the rest of your life. If you were thinking of going skydiving and were told that one in four parachutes failed. Would you still be so interested in trying it out for the thrill of a lifetime? If you saw your friends and people before you jump, some successfully, others only to splat into the ground, would you still be so excited about taking that chance for yourself, hoping that you’ll be the lucky one that gets one that works? But… but…. Look how pretty the parachutes are, smell their lovely fragrance, touch and feel how soft they feel, they beckon you to try one of them on, please try me on and let me wrap myself tightly around you and see how good I feel to you, I’ll hold on tight and snug to you, I am not like the others, honest, I’ll work. Well….. would you do it? Would you take that chance for the thrill of a lifetime? The odds are in your favor, three out of the four will work. Would you do it? Yea, that sounds like a good deal, is this the line I stand in to lose half my sh!t? Good luck with that. Men are waking up and realizing this system is defective and toxic. Women's sexual liberation, feminism and the birth control pill, have ironically dis-empowered women. They are throwaway sexual objects now more than ever.
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Francisco Rodriguez (8 days ago)
Wish I'd seen this BEFORE I got married. Smh.
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David Muir (9 days ago)
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Faith4Today (10 days ago)
This video was so funny...made my day, hahaha!!!!!!
Jim Gallagher (12 days ago)
What a parade of pussies you all are!! you need someone else, and a moronic someone else at that, to tell you how to act? Of course, as once you go mgtow you turn into a blithering idiot little boys, vomiting out your idiotic beliefs that no one now, no anyone ever will give credence to. And, not that I think any mgtow can answer this, what does mgtow do for men that they can't do for themselves?!? C'mon, tough guys, give it a try!!! HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!
ryvr madduck (13 days ago)
My three red flags - she talks, she breathes, she is interested in me.
cho echo (14 days ago)
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My coworker in a nutshell. Though I'm not dating her (because she's like 30 years older than me)
D Googolize (16 days ago)
Wish I saw these videos 20+ years ago but I have to learn the hard way
Soo COOL (17 days ago)
Oooh shit you females are so busted. I will dfefinitelt look for these signs I had a few that is on the list and thank god I replaced them easily and thank you for the rest. You females are choosy as fucked we men are choosier as fucked too bwa ha ha ha ha ha ha.
She is really into communism, is that a red flag?
Faith4Today (10 days ago)
Wiccan, communism...about the same thing, haha
David (18 days ago)
If I could find a lady that tells jokes and is usually upbeat, that would make my day.
david mulligan (19 days ago)
Dont realy date them, just have sex with them, nothing more
ronsfi (20 days ago)
You know what? This is the education young men need and can only be provided by older men who know.
Morty Snerd (21 days ago)
7:40 lock the door before you slam it shut
That domestic violence thing isn't true just by the way....
Ken Hasibar (19 days ago)
Hafta disagree with you.
adka datka (22 days ago)
Alphabetical order: T - L - D - D -V - G - A 🤔
Dan Dan (23 days ago)
you just described all the pvssies on the face of this miserable planet.
K B (24 days ago)
I'd excuse myself and say- have a nice week by yourself. sheesh ladies!
Alex Costan (24 days ago)
@ 6:49 ....Bye!
Bryan Bloom (25 days ago)
Wonderz (25 days ago)
This poor guy, all of his girlfriend's are weird
Too Late Nate (25 days ago)
Holy crapola... I just cringed sooooo hard...
brian inima (26 days ago)
She's a woman >RED FLAG! I repeat RED FLAG!!
Handsome James (26 days ago)
Ah, hah! Hah! Hah! Hilarious! Great actors and actresses!
enemyhelicopters (26 days ago)
good morning i hate women
aaron biglow (27 days ago)
Dated a loud movie talker and was god awful to servers. Called her ex men every derogatory name in the book and was all about ultimatums. Sound familiar? Run!
Emran Hossain (27 days ago)
Lol Gucci Pajamas. I have meet some one like that who was telling me she wears $300 Michael Kors sandal because people gonna notice:)
culchie (27 days ago)
As a woman some of these comments make me sad 😆
Gerald Harmon (27 days ago)
This video is hilarious!😂😂😂😂
Michelle Lin (27 days ago)
I must say, I completely agree with all the points made. Unfortunately, point 5 (she expects to be treated like a princess) is the most common cases nowadays---indirectly (in all the red flags mentioned, all of them still somewhat refer to point 5).
2 WheelsForever (27 days ago)
The MORE I learn about the internal circuitry of women I swear the more I fuckin hate them
holeheadmole (27 days ago)
"Why don't you tell me a bit about yourself." "Well, I'm a single mother-" *leaves the chatroom*
Mad Ashell (15 days ago)
holeheadmole run like hell
Edward Wolski (27 days ago)
Im impotent.. How happy Im... No problems
Hector Lugo (28 days ago)
I LMAO, just how much shit can a guy take. The truth shall set you free. When a woman is a real friend not just (girl friend) life is so much easier dealing with her. Every guy should see this video. I give you 5 stars on that one.
ASDFG (29 days ago)
this is basically 99% of western women
mellowbirddreamer77 (21 days ago)
Yep, most of this is parents failure to teach better. But at some point every adult must correct this behavior themselves. I'm better now at 26 than I was at 18 all because I defect the flaws and I improve.
Faisal (30 days ago)
Faisal (29 days ago)
Men going their own way
Mistmix110 (1 month ago)
Ahhh... I just counted 6 in my current relationship... Especially after she burnt my suits. Too late for me to leave, eh? 🙄
Carlyle Tom (1 month ago)
Is Ava Commissiong related to Penny Commissiong?
Willie HavMmeri (1 month ago)
I'm 39 years old an I've honestly never heard a woman apologize for anything...
Leighann (1 month ago)
Perfect 👍 Love the narrator 💕
gary willis (1 month ago)
To late, I learned all of these red flags the hard way. Now I am an ass hole because I don't fall for the red flags. They should be proud that I am wise right, I could be or is a benefit to the relationship right!
gary willis (1 month ago)
These people are actually funny too! I love it.
Alexander Butler (1 month ago)
Deletes text messages Shady sexual past Insults/critisizes all the time When your gut just says no
Myles Anderson (1 month ago)
A man who never tasted the red pill 😂
Big Earl (1 month ago)
That list of things she wanted for her birthday seemed like a page torn out of the white pages.
Chuckie Gravesfield (1 month ago)
"no smile no tip" basically the whole video in a nutshell. guys if you can't smile on your date you wont have your face snugged in tight on any butt cheeks that night..
E-Live Da God (1 month ago)
Dating a woman with 3 or 4 different personalities. This is a RED FLAG you need to spot on the 1st or 2nd date.
Derek Sinclair (1 month ago)
Most women are "not flexible" because they are land whales.
Peteragent5 (1 month ago)
MAN I wished I saw this before spending all that time with females.
Bill Lorenz (1 month ago)
I could give a shit less if I ever talked to another woman again. I thank God every day that I’m single and free! I actually enjoy rejecting passes by women.
Johnnie Tokyo (1 month ago)
Boarderline Personality Disorder
MGTOW Ghost (1 month ago)
‘The art of manliness’ written by woman, WTF..
William Miles (1 month ago)
nevmor123 (1 month ago)
There IS a reason I live alone! This gave me a goddamn headache. I do not envy any men in my family or even any of my buddies who are married and have kids. Actually I feel sorry and even a little bit guilty that I'm MGTOW and was lucky enough to avoid suffering like that. I did have a girlfriend for a few months who I'm positive was Borderline. She exhibited about 6 or 7 symptoms of that mental illness before I broke up with her. The bad thing about this disease is that you might not realize you're with one. First of all they act totally different around other people than when you are alone. And I'm not just talking different because you're intimate. It is really different. Never once did she cry in front of other people we were around. And she didn't act weird either in front of other people. Only when we were alone or when I was talking to her on the phone. And she only lost her temper once and that was right at the end of her spending time in my company. She got desperate that I was going to break up with her and she retaliated (in a way) but only verbally. When I picked her up at the airport she said, "I've made up my mind. You're the one for me. You take as much time as you need to make up your mind. But, I don't want you to hold back anything." So I didn't. Fast forward to the last night we had together and her words were very different, "Well when were you going to tell me!" "Tell you what?!" "You know whether it's yes or no!" "NO! I DON'T!" "Well I just feel terrible. I've told you things I've never told anyone before" <So what look from me> "Well what are we going to do? It's too late to take me back to the hotel" [I had paid for her to stay in a hotel and checked her out that day and she spent the last night with me at my parents' house where I lived at the time]. I replied, "Well it's really no problem. I can sleep in my room and you can sleep in the room at the other end of the hall." She said, "Well, I guess that's IT!" I said nonchalantly, "I guess it is" and just looked at her. She started to pick up a bottle of cologne she bought for me. Then she put it down saying, "No, I want you to have that." I followed her upstairs and went to my room I thought she might need some supplies for that bathroom. So, I came out of my room and met her halfway in the hall. She broke down crying and hugging me, "I just don't want this to end unamicably!" And then she was kissing me and shoving her tongue down my throat and her eyes would look like a fish gasping for air. She had the ability to dry the tears up that were just in her eyes. This situation of her kissing me like this especially after she had been crying was common. I was actually wanting her to break up with me because I realized she was psychotic. She had shown numerous symptoms of being Borderline prior to that point. Uncharacteristically promiscuous behavior. A teacher who taught small children. A well respected member of her community. Known to the public officials, etc. Tons of friends. Seemingly stable family background. But in private a totally different story. Talking on the phone one night she wanted me to read sybaritic literature to her. I said, "What is sybaritic literature?" "Smut" I said, "I don't have any smut" I would say it is possible these are occasions when these women will record the phone conversation in the anticipation of using that against you such as to accuse you of making an obscene phone call to her. Don't fall for it. I told her numerous times, "You put words in my mouth that I didn't say. You say I did things that I didn't do and you put thoughts in my head that I didn't think. You drive me crazy when you do that!" This is a sign of a Borderline as well. Innocent and benign in the beginning. These will most likely become vindictive and hateful even dangerous eventually. Masochistic and/or sadistic sexual behavior. One night in the hotel she wanted to give me a back rub. She had me lay on the bed on my stomach with no shirt but with my jeans on (luckily). She started kissing me down my back. When she got to my lower back she suddenly without warning bit hard on my left butt cheek. She bit me so hard that she put a red mark on me. Then she thought it was funny. I didn't think it was funny and severely chastised her for it. I told her, "It's not funny! That hurt! I can't believe you did that! I don't even want to talk to you! Just leave me alone! Let me sleep!" She begged me a few times and I told her that I didn't even want to look at her, talk to her and I just wanted to sleep. She finally left me alone. Prior to that on the phone I was trying to break up with her and told her I only saw dark clouds ahead for us. She said she saw blue skies. Then she got a little tremor in her voice like she was about to cry and she said, "Well now I'm getting scared!" "Scared? Of what?" "That you want to break it off!" Fear that their lover is planning on leaving them (another symptom of Borderline). Another instant of the benign weird behavior was the time that she also expressed her fear of me leaving her or breaking it off. Usually I would call her on Sunday night and we would talk for hours. I called her Friday evening to find out what time I should call her on Sunday. We agreed on 8 pm. She asked me what I was doing that night (Friday). I said just playing video games and listening to music. I asked her what she was doing. She said she was going out with friends and when she came home she had to grade papers. So we mutually said have a nice time, goodbye and hung up. Sunday night comes. I called her at 8 pm like we agreed. First words out of her mouth. "Why did you hang up on me?" <said with that little cry in her voice that I came to know oh so well> "Hang up on you? When did I hang up on you?" "I kept thinking did I do something wrong?! Did I say something wrong?!" "Are you talking about Thursday night?! It was two in the morning! I was tired! My ear was hurting!" "No! Friday! I kept thinking did I do something wrong! Did I say something wrong!" "I didn't hang up on you." "I just want to make sure there's nothing wrong." "No, nothing's wrong. Everything's fine. I didn't hang up on you." And that's how a relationship with a Borderline starts. Find yourself in a relationship with a woman who does these things. Get the frick out as soon as you can. These women call the cops and have you arrested on false charges. They abuse you. They tarnish your reputation falsely with your friends and family. They might even kill you and they'll probably get away with it. There are no PSAs to warn men (especially young men) about the Symptoms of Psychoses in Women. Dr. Charles Corry of the Equal Justice Foundation has a page like that. Without my consulting him and getting that reference I would not have known I was in a relationship with a psychotic woman in the beginning. Her ultimatum was her big mistake and that gave me the leverage to end it with her. Even though she called me three more times after I put her on the plane to go back home. My sticking to my guns eventually paid off and she didn't call anymore after that. She sent me a cassette tape of her singing and a check to reimburse me for the hotel bill. That's the last I ever heard from her and that was in like 2004 or 2005.
Steven Lengenfelder (1 month ago)
Feminism made sex cheap and easy to obtain for a man. Why date or heaven forbid marry one? Naw dog. Keep your money. Your house. Your happiness. Go MGTOW.
MadDilla ATCQstarr (1 month ago)
I've dated at least 2 girls who had all 14 red flags in the video come up. Now I just call them up when I need some head.
ford mustang gt (1 month ago)
1. Should be being a feminist that's the ultimate red flag , find a nice conservative girl that what I did ;)
Slim Joker (1 month ago)
He's better than me that's all I can say cuz my patience I don't have any and I'm more than likely to smack the teeth out these bitches mouths which is why I don't involve myself in relationships cuz I do get violent after I'm being picked on or if I'm being attacked fuck chilvary I'm knocking a bitches head off today. Fuck since they wanna be a man and hit like one than they get what they deserve...aint nomore fair ones today bitch...and they made it this way... My mother pulled a gun on me in front of my baby cuz somebody lied and made up some shit I have no respect and no love for these hoes and my mother has alot to do with it but the bitch showed me the true nature of what a woman really is so fuck that fuck her fuck marriages fuck chilvary and fuck the agenda that's only out to keep us binded up with this propaganda shit about the false family values they try to beat in us
Kommissar Antilus (1 month ago)
this is stupid, if the weaker sex miss respect you just show them the door and show who's boss, they'll love it, and if they dont, there is your red flag.
mgtow is true (1 month ago)
All of these cunts sound like my exwife. MGTOW FOREVER BRO
Leisure Larry (1 month ago)
mm8 (1 month ago)
"She treats waiters like crap" wtf 😂😂😂😂😂
X Res (1 month ago)
Narcissists are enemies but they are their own worst enemies which they dont see.
K _E (1 month ago)
'The list is in alphabetical order'. Taylor Swift tickets are on the top of the list. So nothing she wants starts with A-S?
ENG (1 month ago)
I too dont understand snapchat.
Trip Gil (1 month ago)
man. I'd drop these all in a second.
FA9082 (1 month ago)
Lol every single woman on earth is basically one of these. Sheeeeeet, guess gotta go MGTOW
Asa Smith (1 month ago)
Sadly I find attractive women who are Bitchy or a little crazy awesome.. Not looking for a good person looking for a good time lol
Live (1 month ago)
hope the controlling bitches are watching.
GICking (1 month ago)
I'm pretty sure these factors make me half undateable 🙄
DJToneRI (1 month ago)
Great! My children's mother has like 12 of these. And I'm a total fucking idiot
Justin Penn (1 month ago)
I was eating a grape
daichai (1 month ago)
you know why men with big ego's are gay? because that's a bitch'es attitude.
daichai (1 month ago)
*14 red flags when you give women equal rights like that of a human being*
daichai (1 month ago)
my own mother treats strangers like shit. yup all women are whores. at this point islam is better atleast they dont give women rights.
Exploring Soul (1 month ago)
daichai (1 month ago)
women are not human. science can prove me right.
I'm very glad I halted my chess career at twenty-four to become a PUA.  Now I'm 52, started training again at 48, and didn't miss out on my sexual prime over a stupid board game.
The woman in the video would have had to sign a release to appear in it.
Most men don't recognize the true red flags.  I used to tell men never to date women who worked in offices because I had seen #metoo and most men hadn't, so they ignored it.  The problem men have with dating is you can't teach a know-it-all.  Also dating advice is pretty irrelevant now because the internet has created a highly efficient, globalized sexual marketplace where the most desirable people just slide into each other's DMs and hook up without anyone else ever getting a chance.
DandaNgsan (1 month ago)
my last girlfriend had all 14.
Sohn Mcclure (1 month ago)
MGTOW, drop these hoes on their heads and live your life.
Miller Time (1 month ago)
Did this dude really said her punches don't hurt you? Her punches may not hurt as much as a man's punch but it can easily cut you. Stop promoting this type of violence against men.
Hela Goddess Of Death (1 month ago)
Anton Boludo (1 month ago)
14? I thought it was 6!
SpaceAudio (1 month ago)
Say sorry to a woman and she'd reply "no, you're not!" Okay, keep your silence, do nothing and this is what you'd get from a female Godzilla: "you're fucking insensitive" Oh dear. 🤣🤣🤣
Rafaela Mora (1 month ago)
I think all those females are going to be single forever. Or those saps that end up with them will be the most miserably men on earth. Those females is why men created MGTOW. Shame on females.
Michael Brown (1 month ago)
This is Fucking EPIC 😂😂😂
Geald Brisoce (1 month ago)
This is exactly what my relationship is like that's why I gotta fix it
Michael Alguire (1 month ago)
These women act like teenyboppers. They are a complete turn off.
Stuart T (1 month ago)
HER :"Were you checking out that girl" ME: " yes if you don't like it get the fuck out"
K V (1 month ago)
This video is depressing. I'm jumping in a big vat of MGTOW.
Scott Speed TV (1 month ago)
Once you take the red pill you can see everything clearly
Phi Buu Nguyen (1 month ago)
“I just ate a grape” :)))

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