The dating advice for men that I provide in this video, will make attracting and dating women so much easier for you from now on.
You will realize that you can gain control over this area of your life once and for all.
You will also realize that women really do want to have sex, find love and enjoy companionship, just as much as men do.
Yet, they go about the attraction and dating process in a different way than men do.
Once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, they will no longer frustrate you or confuse you.
Instead, you will love the fact that women are different to men and will then simply use your superior knowledge of women to easily attract and date women of your choosing.
In today's video, I explain the following 4 points:
1. Know that women really do want sex, love and relationships too.
2. Know that you don't have to take conversations with women so seriously.
3. Know that trying to avoid seeming awkward, just ends up making you seem awkward.
4. Know that even if a woman likes you, she will often miss out on sex or a relationship if you don't have the confidence to make a move.
With point #1, it’s essential that you understand the different way that women go about getting to sex and a relationship, in comparison to men.
So many guys feel like they are being rejected by a woman, when she is just trying to show him that she’s not an easy target (i.e. so he can then trust her in a relationship), or she is wanting to test his confidence and see if he can maintain his confidence around her, even though she’s not making it 100% obvious that she likes him.
Women don’t do that because they’re crazy.
They do it to attract and find the right guy for them.
As I said above, once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, you simply use that knowledge to your advantage to enjoy your choice of women.
Attracting and dating women really is very easy once you understand how it works.
With point #2, it’s important that you relax and be real when talking to women, rather than putting on an act of being nicer, more formal or more polite than you actually are and want to be.
When you’re talking to a woman that you want to have sex or a relationship with, she wants to get to know the real you, not a fake version of you.
When you use the approach to conversations and interactions that I teach, women open up and show you their easy-going, down to earth side.
It just becomes so damn easy.
With point #3 and #4, please refer to the video. You will enjoy it, I promise.
Okay, that’s enough typing for me today.
If you’d like to learn my step by step method for attracting and dating beautiful women, go to:
The Flow is my eBook, which is also available as an audiobook and it includes my best conversation starters, attraction techniques, connection techniques and techniques for getting a phone number, kiss, date and sex.
If you use The Flow method in your dating life with women, you will literally laugh at how easy it is for you from now on.
My friend helped me to ask a girl instead of me... I'm thankful. Even thought I went to the friendzone. :D
5:55 I just said the exact same thing. Looks like I'm learning something. :)
I find these videos useful, but I think I can stop watching them for now. Or my crush will ask what happened with me? Wait, that's actually not bad, I can make jokes about it.
She spoke about what kind of panties she weared on her graduation... (???) I said, "Didn't you say you'll show me your graduation clothes?". I can say these random jokes, but wasn't confident about how to go to the next level.
And again, thanks for the video.
You’re so dead on, Dan! This helps me understand why certain guys are more attractive to me. Love the part at 11:43 and on. In fact, you’re looking good just hypothetically talking about what to say, lol. 😉
Dan... I have to say.. you have it locked down my friend.. a lot of these techniques you teach I kinda figured out myself yrs & yrs ago when I was on the ‘scene’ & a lot younger. I’ve been with my wife nearly 20 yrs now married 14.. but unfortunately we’ve recently split.. so watching your vids has really helped me re-realise what I had forgotten over the past 2 decades.. You are correct in everything you say. You have to be confident enough to have a laugh & a joke with/at beautiful girls. Listening to your videos it’s like the dating fear fog is clearing. Thank you. 👊🏻👊🏻
Step back from my last message. A guy has been talking to the girl via phone etc for a few weeks. The girl laughs a lot and says she feels very comfortable talking to you and would like to meet. You meet and as per my first message, the guy was not the guy in person as the guy on he phone. The girl Says that the meet felt awkward and uncomfortable so does that mean that there is no chance of a second meet? If there is a chance to meet again, how can the guy back to that stage of meeting again?
Dan. If you end up on a first meet / date and the girl at the end of the meet sends you a message saying that the meet felt awkward and uncomfortable. How can a guy get back to a next meet so the guy can really show himself? Is it a done deal that she does not want to meet again?
I really wish I had this information 10 years ago. It would have prevented me from getting with a girl who I don't really love, even though she is a very good person... Now that I realize this, I'm in a difficult situation, having to leave her, because I now realize that I'd rather date younger women who I'm really attracted to. 😢
Less than half way through the video but I have to say your insight is impressive. And what you said about women dealing with guys who are attracted but don’t do anything about it... so true and it’s hard for our minds to ignore those past experiences when guys talk to us.
What's the best advice I can give my friend who is a 32 year old male.
My friends name is Derek, he is 32 year old virgin who due to childhood difficulties, wasn't able to get an education, and because of his childhood he was placed into assisted living as a teen until age 23, age 24 he became fully independent, but lives off ask because he is unable to hold or get a job. He can't get a job because he has issues with understanding and remembering stuff. His kind goes completely blank if he comes under the smallest amount of pressure and causes him to bail to avoid personal complication and confusion. On to0of that he has never really successfully socialized and when I take him out he always says the wrong things and stuff. He was also born with a disorder that stops him from maturing at a very young age. His personality is like that of a 15 year old boy. He is seriously lonely wants a gf, family etc. I feel sorry for him because he has never been kissed, hugged or really even spoken to a girl long as he says the wrong things and is into things most adults sent like cosplay, anime, video games, common, K-pop and so on. And where he lives no one is into that and when I try to tell him to change, he does and does it badly.
So how can I help him? A guy with no job, education, social skills or ability to hold them and only. I mean are people like him meant to be alone?
So I went on 2 dates and the girlfriend said she wanted to go on a third date but she wanted to schedule it and she said she wanted to cancel does she want me to push forward or just stop I'm just guessing probably stop cuz I deleted the text
Dan bro, trust me u r a serious deal my man, I'm starting to like and watch all of ur videos, these teqniqs are like hidden way down which really changes the way if interacting. Good Job again keep it going..
..... Hi Dan! Sure could use your advice:. As you dispel all of this fantastic, profound advice in this video, can all of this information apply to very introverted shy girls who lack confidence and experience? Treat ALL girls the same? I feel as though some of the rules don't apply to very young shy ladies. (I'm relearning dealing with the shy ones)
Hey dan, would you do a video on how to deal with those guys who shoehorn their way in between you and the girl? Or the ones who just want to torpedo your chances because theyre insecure twats? I hate those guys.
Thanks a lot, Dan! You have motivated me to start talking confidently to women again. I kept trying but with no succes, I usually end up being awkward, nervous because my lack of confidence and overly politeness.
I am always myself and I used to take every conversation seriously, but now we know better, don't we?
Me and my gf nearly dont have sex anymore, i made the mistake to talk about it, which made it even worse.
How should i approach the situation? If im confident and try to get her to have sex she always refuses. I dont know how i should act around it. Should i just dont ask for it anymore?
Discovered the modern man back in 2010-2011. It just works. Period. Thanks Dan, Ben AND Stu lol.
P.S. I don’t have trouble with feminists but ugly women I just rub the wrong way. Like you advised long ago (in The Flow). I leave them alone. Leave them to the guys who don’t know the stuff you teach.
It’s hard sometimes because being attractive becomes who you are not something you’re doing. So, I make sure NOT to connect and TRULY don’t take things forward. You still get the “woman scorned thing” but oh well...
Best of luck Dan, and thank you, thank you, thank you (lol I ALWAYS thank you).
Hi Dan, I wanted to give big support to your videos and this video, I had already liked it when you posted it a few days ago. Just know that you are helping so many people men and women to have better relationships! I have a few of your programs and they are amazing! I really appreciate your videos they have helped me so much to become a better person and enjoy my time with women more with total respect to myself and to women.
I haven't got my ex back but currently dating new women but very attractive women (one was a model), and the latest woman (who is not a model but I prefer her) I used some of your tecniques in the flow and it worked, we kissed :-) and we will be going on a second date soon. Thank you so much! Respect
It’s funny since I got the flow in 2010 many of my exes are models, or former models, or cheered. So many of them have cheerleading injuries lol. It’s a sport you know...or so I’ve found out. (Thanks Dan!).
Hi Dan. I finally approached this beautiful woman who I see frequents this location I go to once a week. She always wears black a lot, skirt, top. I approached her and made a comment "well hi there lady in black" She smiled, I talked to her for a short while, asked her what her name was... Her body language was that she tilted her head way back at one point with a big smile while talking to her. I found that gesture very sexy but was still not sure if she liked me. When she sees me usually she will often glance at me but then reach for her phone and stare at her phone a lot when near me in our past when she would pass me. Sort of out me off.... Long story short... The following 2 weeks I see her, she suddenly stopped wearing her usual look and is wearing a light colored top. She looked at me from a distance almost to see how I would react. Is she doing that to intentially break the connection because I commented on her look...or do you think she is testing me? Or am I reading to much into this? Thanks for any advice... Micah
Hey Dam awesome video great advice I was wondering if you can help me out here I’ve been talking to an attractive women via snap chat evryhjbg was going good but all of a sudden she went cold on me and opened the message and didn’t respond what would u recomend me to do in this case?
You need to get her on a phone call. Women hate it when they become your texting buddy. Always be taking things to the next level. Get to a phone call, date, kiss, sex and into a relationship, rather than sticking to text.
You're the man Dan but recently i start to think that to get a girl is a lot of work and i was thinking to quit to that. I usually watch your content and that is excelent but i still think that not i'm not good enough but i think that i need resources first, as you said not to impress her if not to have an exciting life. My lifestyle is good for me but i don't think that for girls. And i don't bother anymore with loneliness i've discovered that most of the things that i see everyday related to relationships guys have to impress the girl and make her feel attraction to him. Thanks BTW and congrats for 100K but you deserve more than that.
I definitely will 👍 I am currently making videos for the Get Laid or Get a Girlfriend section. When I get that section to about 70 videos in the playlist, I will focus on Fix Your Relationship videos. Stay tuned.
Dan Bacon i need your help i just had a perfect 1st date, okay sex didnt happen but we kissed and cuddled i followed your advice she said she wanted a 2nd date and i said yes so i tried to message her to ask her out and she ignored me? She even said it was the best 1st date she had? Help what do i do..?
Call her. Stop trying to arrange everything via message. Call her, make her laugh by using some humor and make her feel attracted to your confidence. Then, arrange to catch up. Don't refer to it as a date. Refer to it as a catch up to say hi or hang out.
I can't seem to be creative enough when interacting with a girl I like, too neutral, I then go home and start recalling about what I could have said better, in a way taught by Dan, well learning curve is there indeed.
Practice is all you need. You can't start out level 10 but sounds like you're already past level 1 because you realised where you need to work on things. Go try once and you'll learn something and hit level 3 instantly!
Hey Dan, so I recently broke up with my ex and I really want to get her back... I was really clingy and jealous and that let to her dumping me... Anyway, the thing is we are going to see eachother everyday from now on because we both work at the same place... What aproach should I use to get her back?
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